Sometimes I feel like I want to be out out all the time. Club bar (not night club!), music, dancing, wild nights and see where the takes us (me and friends) type of thing. Forget the house/work/money etc. I can wing it through those.
Then other times I feel like I never want to go to a clubby bar ever again and instead stay home and keep a nice house, finish off all the (cosmetic) work to be done in the house, get on top of house stuff, bake, read, peace and chill.
I can never seem to find a happy medium.
Anyone else resonate ?
for context, I am 52 with DH & DC, work FT.