I've been with my husband for 36 years. When we met one of my sister in laws was an absolute cunt. I'm a lot younger than my husband and I wasn't the same economically, however go back a generation and we're the same. Fast forward we've been up and down with money, she's got money now we don't. She wants to be bessies now I don't afaic, she can fuck off I remember all those years ago when she thought I was the shit off her shoes, even though we were the ones in a big fuck off house with money. I hate the cow she just has always been about money,as has her husband 🤢 shame. If she'd been reasonable at the beginning maybe I would have been amenable as it is nnooooo, so no relationship with her only brother 🤷