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What were the 80s like?

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flowerwild · 17/09/2024 13:50

I’m nostalgic for a time I never experienced.

OP posts:
SingingSands · 17/09/2024 15:15

rainsofcastamere · 17/09/2024 15:08

My experience of the 80s was fabulous.

I still maintain that 80s buffets were the finest culinary delights of the western world!

This, absolutely this 😄

I still love a vol-au-vent. And a cheese and pineapple hedgehog.

Rummly · 17/09/2024 15:17

The fag smoke and bigotry are certainly true. But they had always been there - the ‘70s were worse, and earlier decades were even worse than that. Minds opened in the ‘80s though.

Although the greatest race, sex and sexuality equalities and respect came from the ‘90s and noughties I do think the ‘80s formed the start.

Deadringer · 17/09/2024 15:19

It was fab. First job, great nights out at disco bars dancing to great music, fashion was very glam and colourful, was young and in love, got engaged, married and bought our first home, even squeezed in my first pregnancy. (Dd born in July 1990).

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/09/2024 15:20

stayathomer · 17/09/2024 14:07

Easier because it wasn’t all about taking pictures, videoing, looking at phones- you just did stuff!!!😅

What about if you were stuck at home? I recall lots of wandering around bored with friends and going to their houses. BT introduced a chat line service which was advertised as upping your confidence levels, it did but my friends and I got massive phone bills and in the end my mum got a proper coin operated phone box for a short time.

olderbutwiser · 17/09/2024 15:25

Spoilt Boomer here.

Early ‘80s was when I was first working. There was a financial crash, many of my friends lost jobs or struggled to find decent jobs in the first place. Unemployment went to c. 10% (today it’s about 4%). Inflation was about 18%, and I remember going to work paying a mortgage rate of 12% and finding it was 15% when I got home and turned on the news. As a result many friends who’d bought in the boom of the late 1970s found themselves in negative equity and got their properties repossessed and were left with tens of thousands of debt and unable to get a mortgage for many years.

See also Brixton Riots for a feel for levels of racism and poverty in the UK.

So basically it was not all sunshine and roses.

But like all things, this passed. The music was great, fashion was nuts, casual and institutional discrimination against women was on the wane (not gone by any means, but it was possible to challenge it). Private renting was easier and there was more real social housing.

It was a different time for sure.

Itsforthebest · 17/09/2024 15:26

I remember it to be pretty grim. I was brought up on a council estate with a lot of unemployment. There's still a picture of my area kicking around the internet that says 'Welcome To The Bronx' on a wall at the local shops and that pretty much sums it up. Prospects for young people weren't great.

I hated a lot of early to mid-80s music and still do to this day. I never 'got' a lot of what I saw on television: Benny Hill, Carry On Films, Saville (how did anyone ever think he was a normal human being?). I remember having a real disconnect to the culture of the time.

I ended up getting an assisted place to a private school and that really opened my eyes. I think if you had money in the 80s life could be pretty great. Holidays abroad, tennis lessons, endless trips to shops like Benetton, decent food. It was part of the course to be gifted a mini or XR2 on your 18th birthday.

Everything changed for me when we headed into the 90s though. If I was to look back on any decade with rose tinted spectacles it would be that one.

RaininSummer · 17/09/2024 15:28

Endless strikes, marches and a lot of poverty. I didn't think the music was that great tbh. Far too much disco elevator music. Start of unemployment issues.

Pantaloons99 · 17/09/2024 15:31

I was also a kid in the 80s.

For me- amazing music, running wild,feral playing out until dark with all the other feral kids. 😊

Scary adults, strict parents, everyone getting a wallop.

StarSlinger · 17/09/2024 15:34

Fucking awful. Death of industry. Very high unemployment. Lots of poverty.

Rummly · 17/09/2024 15:38

StarSlinger · 17/09/2024 15:34

Fucking awful. Death of industry. Very high unemployment. Lots of poverty.

Yeah, but there was Matt Bianco and Level 42.

So there.

ScrollingLeaves · 17/09/2024 15:43

poppyzbrite4 · 17/09/2024 13:59

Greed is good, Thatcherism, closure of industries, miners strike, yuppies, shoulder pads, drainpipe jeans, Ra Ra skirts, perms, pastels, new romantics, goths, post punk, fall of the Berlin wall.

Falklands War

Afghanistanis got Russia out.

Miners’ Strike

Fall of Berlin Wall

Terrible ferry disaster

Rampant inflation in the first half following on from ‘70s.
Possible to buy a house at 3 x income.
Then the poll tax suddenly came to people who had bought a house where they could afford the rates but now found they needed a huge amount extra to pay the poll tax instead.

New Romantics

Princess Diana

TV
The Jewel in the Crown
Brideshead Revisited
Dallas
Dynasty
Charlie’s Angels with Farah Fawcett-Major ( famous hair)

Right to buy council house - seemed good but often meant no more socially mixed Victorian terraced house city areas: Tenants bought them then sold them to go to modern homes, and areas were then gentrified and became more expensive, without council houses.

rainsofcastamere · 17/09/2024 15:44

I still love a vol-au-vent. And a cheese and pineapple hedgehog.

@SingingSands

Not forgetting half a bread cake with egg mayonnaise and cress or ham with half a cherry tomato on top for added pizzazz!!

3doughnutproblem · 17/09/2024 15:45

Dallas, Dynasty on TV, big hair, really big perms and big earings, boxy jackets with shoulder pads, white high heeled shoes, cropped t shirts with FRANKIE SAYS RELAX, Wham"s Club Tropicana, big mobile phones the size of a brick. Very competitive, my boss was delighted to be called a yuppie, filofaxes that had everything you needed -now replaced by phones, Jonathan Ross and Ben Elton on TV, Bernie Inns and Spud--U-like, Princess Diana everywhere on tv, lots of sexist jokes and sexist bosses, ra ra skirts,dancing to Madonna, Cameo etc, Spandau Ballet's True played at many a wedding, meringue wedding dresses, bold eye make up....during the 80's I felt insecure and not that happy but now look back at it with fondness. Time blurs the edges.

Compash · 17/09/2024 15:46

The stink of hair products! Mousses, gels... they were a new thing then. L'Oréal Studio Line, I think? People getting those perm-teaser combs with the wide tines. Boots Twilight Teaser lipstick that made you look like a badly-embalmed corpse...

Favourite 80s film: Working Girl...

ScrollingLeaves · 17/09/2024 15:47

Inflation was about 18%, and I remember going to work paying a mortgage rate of 12% and finding it was 15% when I got home and turned on the news

I forgot to say this. It was terrible lots of people lost their houses. Then the Poll Tax made it worse ( same rates as a mansion for a 2 up 2 down).

newfriend05 · 17/09/2024 15:51

Loved them , was 10-20 years old secondary school, friends, yts , clubbing , discos ....was a size 8.. first boyfriend.. first everything.. first holiday aboard...wham , Spandau Ballet , live aid was just a fabulous time.. everything seemed possible ... but was no doubt just my age ...

Sheeparelooseagain · 17/09/2024 15:53

My dad lost his job in the early 80s so I remember my family being skint and living from giro to giro.
Sexism, racism and homophobia was rife.
Rita, Sue and Bob too reminds me of that time.
The positive was that I went to university with a full grant and no tution fees and with no social media about,it felt like freedom.

DeCaray · 17/09/2024 15:55

A wonderful time.

I left school in 1982 and after college and University I had my pick of jobs.

Everything was great - the music, films, TV, fashion, cost of living etc

A truly fabulous time to be alive.

Button28384738 · 17/09/2024 15:56

I was born in 81 so only remember them as a child. Definitely simpler- no internet, mobiles, terrestrial TV with only 4 channels, kids tv at dedicated times so kids played more. TV was better than it is now in my opinion.
Lots of mums didn't work or had part time jobs to fit around school, because there weren't childcare options like there are now.
My parents were middle income so my Dad worked, mum didn't. Always money for stuff we needed but definitely not rich. UK holidays rather than going abroad, way less clothes than my DC have but stuff was better quality, more hand me downs from cousins and friends.
People spent less on their homes I think- as in not buying houses but on decorating them and furniture. It wasn't really the done thing to buy stuff on credit so people would do a room up when they could afford it, and save up for a new sofa etc, so it was normal for homes to not be as fancy and they are now, people had second hand furniture. None of my friends had super modern homes like what you would imagine as being "80s style".
School was not digital at all, one computer for the whole school, writing on blackboards or overhead projectors. Everything hand written.
Stuff was bought in actual shops, or occasionally from a catalogue that you had to order through the mail or on the phone.

ImWearingPantaloons · 17/09/2024 15:58

For me, growing up in the Welsh valley, it felt like we were on the precipice of something exciting, all the while tempered with real social and political issues.

One of my friends dads was a miner, another friend had a dad who worked as management for the NCB. They both had very different experiences of the miners strike and they clashed a lot.

However late 80s in Swansea we got all the things that Just17 went on about, like the Body Shop and McDonalds.

Vegetarianism was starting to gain traction, I was starting to gain awareness of how human actions impacted the world.

All this against a backdrop of amazing music.

almondflake · 17/09/2024 16:01

Absolutely amazing, if you worked hard you could have anything you could dream of , houses, cars , holidays . People dressed up to go out no jeans and t shirts were allowed ,,lads wore shirts and ties with tie pins and thin leather ties jackets with rolled up sleeves like extras from Miami vice . The fashion was so eclectic to more flamboyant the better , skin tight satin pants or full skirts or skinny skirts with peplums and bid hair .
Where we grew up girls and lads went out separately on a Friday night then it was couples and club night on a Saturday , Friday was the night to get to know new people and see if you fancied anyone .
Houses in the north west were roughly £20,000 we paid £17,500 for a 3 bed semi with garage and gardens . Houses were about 3 1/2 times your salary .
I bought a house in 84 was born in 64 and it was expected by myself and my friends that you could be whoever you wanted to be .
It was a great time which I sincerely hope we will see again .

GoingDownLikeBHS · 17/09/2024 16:02

Dorking, @flowerwild. They were like Dorking, as it is now.

LuckysDadsHat · 17/09/2024 16:02

3-13 years old and had a blast. Played out all day in the school holidays, the clothes were ace, everything felt new and exciting. Music was amazing.

Rummly · 17/09/2024 16:03

almondflake · 17/09/2024 16:01

Absolutely amazing, if you worked hard you could have anything you could dream of , houses, cars , holidays . People dressed up to go out no jeans and t shirts were allowed ,,lads wore shirts and ties with tie pins and thin leather ties jackets with rolled up sleeves like extras from Miami vice . The fashion was so eclectic to more flamboyant the better , skin tight satin pants or full skirts or skinny skirts with peplums and bid hair .
Where we grew up girls and lads went out separately on a Friday night then it was couples and club night on a Saturday , Friday was the night to get to know new people and see if you fancied anyone .
Houses in the north west were roughly £20,000 we paid £17,500 for a 3 bed semi with garage and gardens . Houses were about 3 1/2 times your salary .
I bought a house in 84 was born in 64 and it was expected by myself and my friends that you could be whoever you wanted to be .
It was a great time which I sincerely hope we will see again .

Miami Vice! That takes me back in a rush. Might have to go and listen to Crockett’s Theme now.

What a decade that was!

RainintheDesert · 17/09/2024 16:04

I was at Primary school so don't remember much, but I do remember Pigeon Street. I remember my mum denigrating Thatcher when she came on the telly. My dad was the sole breadwinner until I was 8, then Mum went back to education to get her qualifications. But we only had one holiday a year, usually in a tent, caravan or chalet somewhere. My brother was into He-man and Thundercats. I had Care Bears and we went to see the film tie-in. My Little Pony. Sindy. Jem. My friend had a huge collection of Sylvanian Families.

We grew up in a village so went to a little school. I was allowed to go out by myself on my bike up and down my street from the age of six. Mum would stand at the end of our driveway, supervising. Most of our free time was outside, either in the back garden or riding up and down our street. I'd play with a ball at the side of the house, one-sided tennis or just throwing it against the wall.

We rarely ate out. If we went on a day out my mum would make a mountain of cheese sandwiches, and bring crisps, some jam tarts or apple pies, and Panda Pop or squash.

Money was not plentiful, even when my Mum went back to work. My dad was made redundant and was jobless for a while, so Mum had to pick up the slack. Luckily my dad found another job after a few months. But it took them ages to recover, financially.

I had a great time as a kid, running around, going to kids parties, joining the Brownies, jacket potatoes and tomato soup every Bonfire night, dancing to Agadoo in my Gran's living room...but I was a kid, I didn't much pay attention to anything beyond my little world. It's only as an adult, I learned all the social history of the 1980s.