He didn't say it but if he said it he didn't mean it and if he did mean it it doesn't matter because yadayadayada....
This is the trouble though. People will argue themselves into they're blue (red) in the face to avoid admitting the actual truth: that the person representing them is an abusive, women-loathing liar and fraud. Once you whip up a populist frenzy they stop listening to what is actually being said or for some of them they stop even caring.
There are people that say that it's okay that he says he will become a dictator (we won't have to worry about elections in four years time; we'll avoid those parts of the constitiution that we disagree with etc etc).
This stuff about cults explains the Trump allure:
When a cult is offering a unique religious movement that feels safe but also a way to find their inner worth, they are likely to believe every word they are being told.
Cult leaders are known to repeat various lies and distortions until members find it difficult to distinguish between reality and cult life.
To maintain a false sense of comfort, cults often rely on paranoia tactics. Cult leaders convince their victims that a group, their families, and/or the government is out to get them, but that the cult can provide safety. Once a cult member comes to the conclusion that their families and country cannot keep them safe, they begin to worship and put all of their faith in their cult leader.
It's happened in the UK with the anti-vax movement and Brexit. Not everyone who agreed with those things was seduced in a cultish way, but there were many people who just believed every lie that was fed to them and thought it made them more powerful and more insightful that they knew things the rest of us just didn't (with our pesky facts and what not).