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Having sex if you could change into a man/woman.

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AITAH10 · 06/09/2024 00:23

After seeing several people in real life and online say if they could change into a man/woman for a day they'd want to have sex to see what it feels like. I've just been like oh OK but it came to me the other day and now I keep wondering if you changed into a man would you have sex with a man and be straight as you're actually a woman but a gay man or have sex with a woman to experience what a straight man would experience but as a woman it would be a lesbian experience?

It's nothing of consequence but just something in my head.

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MsPlatt · 06/09/2024 00:25

AITAH10 · 06/09/2024 00:23

After seeing several people in real life and online say if they could change into a man/woman for a day they'd want to have sex to see what it feels like. I've just been like oh OK but it came to me the other day and now I keep wondering if you changed into a man would you have sex with a man and be straight as you're actually a woman but a gay man or have sex with a woman to experience what a straight man would experience but as a woman it would be a lesbian experience?

It's nothing of consequence but just something in my head.

Huh?!?!

ncforcatquestion · 06/09/2024 00:28

I don't really know I don't think it would be on my mind. I would just be like WTF all day probably

AITAH10 · 06/09/2024 00:32

Over the years I've heard lots of discussion about people wanting to change their sex from woman -> man and man -> woman for a day and often they say they'd like to have sex to experience it as the other sex.

Im going to presume you are a straight woman.

So let's say you said the same and wanted to try to have sex as a man would you:

A) have sex with a man as you are a straight woman, but would be having an experience as a gay man

or

B) have sex with a woman as you are in a man's body and that would be a straight mans experience but as you are intrinsically a woman it would be like having a lesbian experience

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YeahComeOnThen · 06/09/2024 00:32

Well you're making the game rules up so you decide!

when 'changing into a man' do you literally become a man or do you just get a male physique?

Secondly I don't believe a bit of same sex exploration makes you gay/lesbian or even bi.

also if I could change into a man briefly I'd want to know what it feels like as a man to have sex with a woman. So would hope this brief change makes me actually have the thoughts & physical and mental feeling of a man. Otherwise there's not much point.

ncforcatquestion · 06/09/2024 00:35

(A)

AITAH10 · 06/09/2024 00:42

YeahComeOnThen · 06/09/2024 00:32

Well you're making the game rules up so you decide!

when 'changing into a man' do you literally become a man or do you just get a male physique?

Secondly I don't believe a bit of same sex exploration makes you gay/lesbian or even bi.

also if I could change into a man briefly I'd want to know what it feels like as a man to have sex with a woman. So would hope this brief change makes me actually have the thoughts & physical and mental feeling of a man. Otherwise there's not much point.

Well yeah i don't think people generally go into too much detail normally in these discussions but I'd imagine. You get to choose to spend a day as a man go to sleep knowing you would become one for the day and wake up with a male physique but still mentally yourself?

Which is why I think the question is so fascinating to me because I feel like people largely believe they are straight/ gay etc but is that body specific or experience specific? As a straight woman the instinct would presumably be to have sex with a man but gay sex isn't the majority experience for men.

For me I think I'd go for sex with a woman even if I usually went for men.

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ncforcatquestion · 06/09/2024 00:44

Would you be attracted to the woman though

AITAH10 · 06/09/2024 00:48

ncforcatquestion · 06/09/2024 00:44

Would you be attracted to the woman though

I dunno I guess with this being my instinct I would.

For me I guess it's about what men would be feeling having sex with me than just having sex with a penis.

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Chrsytalchondalier · 06/09/2024 01:11

Probably with both to see what its like

sunhasgotthis · 06/09/2024 02:17

I'm a straight woman. I'd choose option B.

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