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Would I be moved under these circumstances?

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ihavebecome · 05/09/2024 18:49

Hello. I live in a housing association flat. I'm going to be calling them tomorrow but before I do I wanted to ask if anyone would have any idea on if I would be moved away? I'm disabled. I live alone.

My ex is violent, abusive and has been stalking me for months after finding out where I live. He shows up knocking on my door, Shows up when I get home when I'm parking my car, Posts notes through my door, If I go to my local shop around the corner he's there no matter what time of day I go, Shows up at shops when I'm shopping, I have a bin shed at the front of my flat and I have literally just found out he slept in there last night and has also told my neighbour he has slept of the field at the back of my back garden so he can see when I close my curtains, when I go to bed, when I get up etc

when he shows up he has started shouting in the street trying to get me to open my door, I have not opened it and I'm not going to, I have him on video shouting.

Final straw for me is he has made himself friendly with my neighbour who lives below me (both heavy drinkers) and my neighbour has told him he can stay on his couch.

I now feel like I can't leave my flat without being watched. The police are involved.

what is likely to happen?

OP posts:
MangoAndLimeNandos · 05/09/2024 19:17

Are the police involved? I imagine that will help your case.

MrsPostmanPat · 05/09/2024 19:45

Phone them tomorrow and ask. I lived in social housing and was moved due to ex husband verbally abusing me on my doorstep. I was scared to go into town. But what I experienced was nothing as bad as you and I was moved within 6 months. I didn't go far as there were DC to consider but I was far enough he couldn't turn up at my door and as it was a different town, I knew I wasn't going to bump into him.

It will obviously depend on what properties are available, but it's definitely worth speaking to them.

hulahoopqueen · 06/09/2024 05:19

I would have thought that if you have evidence of all of the above, and the police are involved, it would be more likely to get a restraining order than to be moved?

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