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Another brilliant woman, another inadequate man

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PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 10:25

Olympic marathon runner Rebecca Cheptegei dies after fire attack

https://www.thetimes.com/article/53e5bddd-8968-4f77-9f74-74176470a3b4?shareToken=133127ff9d5dd45b9a885d89bd4d4e86

He set her on fire in front of her daughters. I feel such RAGE reading this. Nothing will ever change will it, there will always be men who will try to extinguish brilliant women. It feels really hopeless.

Olympic marathon runner Rebecca Cheptegei dies after fire attack

The athlete had been in hospital since the weekend with burns to 75 per cent of her body after ‘vicious attack by her boyfriend’

https://www.thetimes.com/article/53e5bddd-8968-4f77-9f74-74176470a3b4?shareToken=133127ff9d5dd45b9a885d89bd4d4e86

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jazzyBBBB · 05/09/2024 10:28

Awful. Yes this will disappear from news in hours/days and should be an outcry.

Tillow4ever · 05/09/2024 10:29

I just read this - although I didn't see anything about it being in front of her children. Absolutely horrific. And yet these stories are no longer surprising. You get to the end and wonder who's next.

What world we live in.

Birdseyetrifle · 05/09/2024 10:31

Men’s jealousy and controlling issues, thing is other men won’t pull him up on it, doubt any pulled him up on any of his behaviours prior to this.

Fucking arseholes.

Gettingannoyednow · 05/09/2024 10:32

"Constantly had family wrangles" said the police. Fucking hell.

Igmum · 05/09/2024 10:39

Poor Rebecca and that vile man. I hope they throw the book at him.

betterangels · 05/09/2024 10:39

PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 10:25

Olympic marathon runner Rebecca Cheptegei dies after fire attack

https://www.thetimes.com/article/53e5bddd-8968-4f77-9f74-74176470a3b4?shareToken=133127ff9d5dd45b9a885d89bd4d4e86

He set her on fire in front of her daughters. I feel such RAGE reading this. Nothing will ever change will it, there will always be men who will try to extinguish brilliant women. It feels really hopeless.

I feel exactly like this. Raging.

poppymango · 05/09/2024 11:07

yep I'm feeling the rage on this one aw well.

Is it just me or has the violent misogyny really ramped up a few notches in recent months/years...?

PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 13:14

poppymango · 05/09/2024 11:07

yep I'm feeling the rage on this one aw well.

Is it just me or has the violent misogyny really ramped up a few notches in recent months/years...?

It feels like it. There's even a term: 'family annihilators'
The one grim justice is that he also set himself on fire by accident.

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PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 13:15

Tillow4ever · 05/09/2024 10:29

I just read this - although I didn't see anything about it being in front of her children. Absolutely horrific. And yet these stories are no longer surprising. You get to the end and wonder who's next.

What world we live in.

The three of them had just come back from church. Fucking bastard.

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Tillow4ever · 05/09/2024 13:48

PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 13:14

It feels like it. There's even a term: 'family annihilators'
The one grim justice is that he also set himself on fire by accident.

To be fair, the term “family annihilator” has been around for at least 20 years (was used in Criminal Minds, and that show started around 20 years ago) so this isn’t a new thing - it does however seem to have increased - unless of course it’s simply being reported more now?

hollyblueivy · 05/09/2024 13:50

I can't bring myself to read the story but why are men (not all men) like this????!!!!!!!

So sad and tragic.

Riverhillhouse · 05/09/2024 13:56

It’s horrendous & I feel like I keep similar stories. Just recently we had the crossbow one, then the family killed in the house fire & I’m sure there have been others. It’s so tragic.

HelpNeededBeforeIHaveABreakdown · 05/09/2024 14:18

Some countries have a separate crime of femicide where a woman is killed by a man she is in or had been in a relationship with.

I would hope such a crime would carry a life sentence.

theconversation.com/femicide-many-countries-around-the-world-are-making-the-killing-of-women-a-specific-crime-heres-why-its-needed-227526

coxesorangepippin · 05/09/2024 14:18

Just read this

Absolutely dispicable

beguilingeyes · 05/09/2024 15:04

The BBC are reporting this as an East African problem. It's not an East African problem...it's a men problem!

PoliticalCanvasser · 05/09/2024 15:12

beguilingeyes · 05/09/2024 15:04

The BBC are reporting this as an East African problem. It's not an East African problem...it's a men problem!

Too bloody right!

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suburberphobe · 05/09/2024 15:34

The BBC are reporting this as an East African problem. It's not an East African problem...it's a men problem!

I don't see that anywhere in the article from BBC that I'm reading.

Rebecca Cheptegei: Olympic athlete dies days after being set alight by ex-boyfriend (bbc.com)
Celestine Karoney
BBC News, Nairobi

Still makes me fucking angry though! That poor poor woman. I feel for her family.

Rebecca Cheptegei participating in the marathon at the World Athletics Championships in Budapest 2023

Rebecca Cheptegei: Olympic athlete dies days after being set alight by ex-boyfriend

Marathon runner Rebecca Cheptegei, 33, was doused in petrol after returning home from church.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3vx0kq2xr2o

FredaGo · 05/09/2024 15:39

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LizzieSiddal · 05/09/2024 15:43

Absolutely horrific. That poor woman. Men’s violence is an epidemic. Im
coming to the conclusion we need to be setting up women only counties, we’d only need a sperm bank and that’s it, the men can fuck off.

beguilingeyes · 05/09/2024 19:45

suburberphobe · 05/09/2024 15:34

The BBC are reporting this as an East African problem. It's not an East African problem...it's a men problem!

I don't see that anywhere in the article from BBC that I'm reading.

Rebecca Cheptegei: Olympic athlete dies days after being set alight by ex-boyfriend (bbc.com)
Celestine Karoney
BBC News, Nairobi

Still makes me fucking angry though! That poor poor woman. I feel for her family.

It was a sub heading on BBC news on TV.

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