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I’m 47, have a mirena coil, rarely have sex…. Could I be five months pregnant?

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ImpossiblePossible · 05/09/2024 10:19

Please talk me down. Nausea for the last few days. Something going on in my stomach (assumed IBS). Hungry, tired. Can’t get to the shops til tonight to get a test.

I have a mirena coil and haven’t had sex since April. The chances of me being pregnant must be so infinitesimally tiny, right?

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OrlandointheWilderness · 05/09/2024 10:29

Any other symptoms OP? Any sign of bump? Tbh the chance is very small, but obviously a test wouldn't go amiss.

heldinadream · 05/09/2024 10:29

Highly unlikely that you are pregnant. All symptoms with many other likely causes including just the day to day variation of bodies. So easy to panic; as women we are conditioned to panic and imagine pregnancy because the implications for our lives are so huge.
I had the same kinds of panics a few times in my life. Was never right. The two times I was pregnant involved no panics whatsoever.

I'm pretty sure it'll be something else @ImpossiblePossible

heldinadream · 05/09/2024 10:30

She said April.

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DreadPirateRobots · 05/09/2024 10:35

It's very unlikely, but stranger things have happened. You can quickly and easily rule it out with a test, so do.

Spenditlikebeckham · 05/09/2024 10:36

Stand tall. Lean backwards.. If your uterus was out of your pelvis you would feel it on this position if you were 3 months plus... At 5 months it would be very obvious..

ImpossiblePossible · 05/09/2024 10:37

No signs of a bump. Bit swollen.

OK. You have all made me feel much better, thank you. Was dreading the conversation with my teenagers 😁

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flooachoo · 05/09/2024 10:41

Not all pregnancies are obvious stomach wise it would depend on a lot of things. But tests are £1.50 in Asda for 3 strips so hardly breaking the bank.

We had a friend who admittedly was younger, on the pill and discovered she was 7 months pregnant. She thought her little tummy was Christmas weight. I was 5 months pregnant and looked it, she most definitely did not look even early pregnant.

If you are having sex, any sex then pregnancy can occur. Just take a test, it doesn't have to be an expensive Clearblue digital.

ImpossiblePossible · 05/09/2024 10:52

Good tip about Asda, thanks. Ok, that is what I will do.

I’ll update later but I think we all know where this is going. 😊

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LostittoBostik · 05/09/2024 10:55

Take a cheap test just to park it mentally, but it's far more likely to be perimenopause stuff

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 05/09/2024 11:16

I managed to get DP pregnant despite both a mirena and condoms.

We also didn't find out she was pregnant until very very late.

So yes, it's unlikely OP, but it is still possible. No harm (aside from a few quid) to get a test just to make sure.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 05/09/2024 11:22

Haha, fair point, it was a joint effort!

Edit: Although the condom broke, and I was the one who put it on, so you could make a case that it was all my fault.

Trebol · 05/09/2024 11:23

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Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 05/09/2024 11:27

Just coming in to add that I had a Mirena coil fitted and when I started to slide into menopause I had 'pregnancy-type' feelings. I felt sick and queasy and tired, but because the coil smoothed out the worst of the symptoms (I didn't have periods for example, so nothing to stop), I didn't know what was happening. I also thought I might be pregnant, but no, it was just menopause symptoms. They vanished altogether after about a year.

With a coil fitted, infrequent sex and none since April, I think pregnancy (especially if you already have children) would be showing and far more symptomatic by now!

heldinadream · 06/09/2024 13:01

Did you do a test @ImpossiblePossible ?

ImpossiblePossible · 06/09/2024 17:05

um no I didn’t do a test but I think I don’t need to take one on account of having had quite an upset stomach … and now feeling better 😊

Thanks MN. You were here for me when I needed good sense. 😁

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