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Can you swim and ride a bike?

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Ferne88 · 04/09/2024 17:48

I kind of assumed that most adults (save for those prevented from doing so by health reasons) could swim and ride a bike, but my friend reckons not.

So can you swim (so by that I mean at least a 50 meter length) and ride a bike?

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TeddyBeans · 04/09/2024 20:04

My partner and I - yes to both though I'm not a very strong swimmer
My parents can both cycle but neither can swim
A friend of mine (younger than me) can't swim

My son is 6 and learning to do both - he likely has ASD so it's taking longer than I would like as he's incredibly risk averse

Taytocrisps · 04/09/2024 20:05

I can swim but not very well - about the width of a pool. My parents couldn't swim themselves and weren't in a position to teach me.

I can ride a bike.

MrsBobtonTrent · 04/09/2024 20:05

I can swim but can’t ride a bike. But I’ve acquired one and and am going to learn once the schools go back!

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Boogiemam · 04/09/2024 20:05

Yes to both. I don't know anyone who can't, except recently late father in law. He couldn't swim but holds world records in fishing. Proper big stuff out on the sea. Blew my mind when I learned that.

TeabySea · 04/09/2024 20:05

Swim, no. Ride a bike, yes.

cannotfindanickname · 04/09/2024 20:06

I am not a very fast swimmer but i can swim about 500m in 45 mins, only breast stroke. As a child though i was scared of water. I used to be able to ride a bike but i haven't tried for at least 20 years. I am 59.

alinetokill · 04/09/2024 20:06

Yes I can do both, though it took me a long time to learn on the bike thanks to dyspraxia.

sanityisamyth · 04/09/2024 20:06

I put earlier I can do both and I can. But I will probably never ride a bike again as I broke my coccyx years ago and now I can't sit on a saddle. Cycling is very painful!

Dearg · 04/09/2024 20:07

Yes to both. But I am old enough to remember the first pool,being built in my semi-rural town as a child.
My parents both grew up in coastal towns and were keen for us to learn. I am not a fan.
I do however love cycling.

MouseMama · 04/09/2024 20:08

It usually seems like older people who grew up rurally didn’t have much opportunity to learn to swim.

Waitingfordoggo · 04/09/2024 20:09

Yes, up to a point.

I can swim 50 metres but I’m not a strong or elegant swimmer and the only stroke I can do properly is breaststroke. I would probably not attempt to rescue someone in difficulty in water as I would likely become a casualty myself, whereas my OH is a very strong and competent swimmer and would probably have a go at rescuing someone if needed.

I can ride a bike easily though.

My kids can swim well and ride bikes, although I don’t think DD has been on a bike since she was about 12. DS uses his as his main transport.

6strings1song · 04/09/2024 20:10

I can. Confidently for both and was never off my bike as a kid. I am also quite confident in the sea and can keep myself afloat by treading water etc.

DH can swim moderately confidently, but sinks like a stone in the sea. We are not sure if he truely can actually ride a bike. Apparently he had formal bike riding "lessons" (i'd never heard of this) when he was 12, but never really took to it. Why no one in his family taught him is beyond me. With swimming, his parents also didn't bother to enrol him in swimming lessons (definitely no money worries) or bother to teach him to swim (both parents can swim) until he was about 14. We are both only in our mid-30s, so I think this is quite unusual. They took him to stately homes instead. 🙄The advanced age of swimming lessons was quickly denied/shut down when it was brought up at a recent family gathering.

Shineybrightthings · 04/09/2024 20:11

I’m 70. Confident on a bike but unfortunately can’t swim. I don’t even like getting in to a hot tub. I couldn’t walk across the shallow end of the swimming pool without holding the side 😆

the80sweregreat · 04/09/2024 20:12

Swim : yes
Bikes only since I was 11 or something!
No balance at all now

abracadabra1980 · 04/09/2024 20:12

Yes

MovingTooFast121 · 04/09/2024 20:12

Octavia64 · 04/09/2024 17:56

In the U.K. most schools have had swimming lessons for at least the last 40 years and it's on the national curriculum that children should be able to swim 25 metres.

Part of this is about preventing drowning,
I'd expect most adults in the U.K. to be able to swim.

Riding a bike is common in childhood but probably less widespread.

To be fair, I remember doing swimming in year 5 or 6 and there were literally two of us in a class of about 25 kids who were competent swimmers (could swim proper strokes, more than a few lengths etc.), and then a handful of kids who could doggy paddle.

ByTheNine · 04/09/2024 20:21

I'm 44 and I can only swim about 10 metres so I probably wouldn't even describe it as swimming, and can't ride a bike either. We didn't have money for swimming lessons or bikes when I was growing up and as the oldest kid in the extended family there wasn't anyone to borrow a bike off, then after a certain point it just seems weird to try to start learning. However, I'm ashamed of both facts and if you asked me I would just lie and say I could, so I wouldn't show up in your survey!

SecondFavouriteDinosaur · 04/09/2024 20:24

My kids are strong swimmers as we’ve paid for lessons since they were toddlers, but the school swimming lessons they’ve had have been rubbish. They only get one term of lessons in year 4, and only 20 mins in the pool for a lesson. Those who couldn’t swim at the start still couldn’t swim at the end.

Canalboat · 04/09/2024 20:24

I can’t swim. My parents couldn’t and nobody ever taught me. My brother managed to learn somehow, some kind of club he went to I think.

Oblomov24 · 04/09/2024 20:25

Yes. I consider both basic life skills that everyone should be not to, unless special needs / medical issue.

BogRollBOGOF · 04/09/2024 20:27

FofB · 04/09/2024 18:35

Yes. However, after covid, 2/3rd of my daughters class couldn't.

They'd missed 18m of lessons and then were coming to the last couple of years when they had to do it in school. This meant that for the Yr 6 lessons, she had sit on the side of the pool as only 8 of them could swim proficiently and the teachers needed to help the other 20 who couldn't.

So I'm guessing there is going to be a rise in young adults who can't swim well in the future.

DS1 got through his school lessons just before Covid disruption.
DS2's class "donated" half of their swimming time to the class between them that got the brunt of the restrictions so that they could have more than a few weeks.

The standard of swimming at their school is high, bolstered by most having private lessons. The school instructor finds they tend to have the highest proportion of swimmers out of the schools he teaches. Many of the schools in deprived areas have a handful of swimmers, and many with no experience of swimming.

DS2's post-Covid class was still better than average, but there were fewer strong swimmers than DS1's class 2 years earlier. Less time spent in lessons, private and in school. Many finished learning earlier because of the disruption. DS1's class had no non-swimmers at the end of school lessons; DS2's had a handful that never got as far as trying a length and about half couldn't strongly swim 25m.

Family sessions were really hammered by social distancing policies. While my two were lucky to continue lessons whenever they weren't prohibited, it was about 15m that they went without a casual fun swimming session. We didn't take up the option to private hire half the pool in a family bubble!

Because DS2 was lucky to have a provider that maximised lesson provision and I've kept him swimming to stage 7+ he is now one of the strongest swimmers of his class as many didn't progress beyond where they left off a couple of years ago. He hadn't expected to perform the best when swimming was part of a multi-sport event held last term.

There is a large number of children that lack opportunity to master swimming, let alone be strong swimmers and there are a multitude of reasons for that.
Covid rules removed a lot of opportunity and often the only opportunity for many for 18m to learn to swim, and that takes a way access to a fairly cheap, and very accessible sport (in terms of health/ injury)

SayDoWhatNow · 04/09/2024 20:27

I can do both, but my DH who grew up in the middle east can't swim and only learnt to ride a bike in his 20s (and now cycles most days).

viques · 04/09/2024 20:29

Can swim and ride a bike.

Can’t skateboard, pogo stick, use in line roller skates or ice skate. Useless at things that involve hitting balls with sticks or bats. I run like a headless chicken.

I make very good pastry though.

unmemorableusername · 04/09/2024 20:34

Not 50m without a break. I can get to 25 but I'm gasping by that point. I know how to do the strokes but don't have a lot of stamina.

Birdahoy · 04/09/2024 20:34

Yes, both quite badly but well enough to get by.

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