I love my friend and we met at work and laughed a lot. She wa new and I helped her immensely (no problem) but I left and then she didn’t get kept back in (lots of problems with personality clashes)
but anyway now I’ve notice every single conversation is her needs, she needs me to help her with her new work load even though it’s different to what I know and make demands for support, cuts off personal chat until she says everything she needs to get out. Forgot my birthday and I don’t mind that too much (I’m a bit old for that) but literally rings every day. If I ring with a problem she cuts me off saying there is someone at the door. So todat I said softly that she needs to find her own way with new job. I don’t want to lose her as a friend but I know she lost her last job by being ‘too much’ ringing boss late at night, being quiet rude and controlling to staff
has anyone been here ??