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Shall I bin the date off now?

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ForOliveShaker · 30/08/2024 19:02

Been speaking to a guy for a couple of weeks. He’s alright looking, my type and to be fair, he rings me after work and we’ve had quite the laugh and joke. He’s make me laugh and we have really similar interests.

we were on the phone today and he randomly mid convo said “oh damn I just looked in my rear view mirror and the girl behind me is beautiful” mind you I’m pretty secure in myself to not feel majorly intimidated. However, I went silent on the phone and just said “yeah okay. Maybe I’ll have a rethink about tomorrow” he went “no I’m not ever gonna do anything. I think it’s okay to acknowledge others being pretty” so I said “yeah that’s fine. But again maybe I’m just interested anymore”

It’s a massive shame because we’d really got on so far but something about that just put me off. Shall I bin it or aibu?

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Calyx72 · 30/08/2024 19:10

My opinion- definitely cancel the date.
He's checking boundaries to see what you will let him away with.

smallsilvercloud · 30/08/2024 19:14

Bin 🗑️
It's a reg flag, that he'll always be ogling other women and it's really not nice to be told about it.

Saucison · 30/08/2024 19:15

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pinkyredrose · 30/08/2024 19:17

Definitely boundary checking. Bin.

Fintoo · 30/08/2024 19:17

Why have you started two identical threads?

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