Years ago,I had a friend (who turned out to be a nasty bitch,who turned on me and made my life so hellish,I moved away-but that's another thread)
Anyway,we where at her house one day,(my children where upstairs playing with her ds) when I saw a little boy of about 4/5 years old run across the hall and I could see him hiding behind the door-clear as day
I just knew his name was 'sam'
I didn't say anything in the moment as she was in the kitchen making drinks for us
Just as she came back in,my youngest dd came wandering in and told me 'Sam wants a drink too,please mummy'
My friend was almost in tears-shed had 5 children over two marriages (3 where almost adults at this point and 2 where tweens)
She'd left her first husband,divorced him,got married to the second and left second hubby for her now partner-leaving her children with their father
She'd fallen pregnant with no6-my dds friend (at the time,they where about 6 years old) and had lost a baby boy to stillbirth about 4 years earlier-she really felt it was her punishment for leaving her other children with their fathers
She often saw the child she had lost,we where not the first to have seen him and her youngest often spoke about him-Sam was the name they'd chosen for him
If it had just been me,I would have put it down to a trick of the light but dd coming in and saying 'sam' needed a drink too confirmed I hadn't been imaging it
She's now an adult and I asked her about it a few weeks ago,she said she'd seen him and he'd whispered about the drink-so she asked me and when she turned round,he'd gone