Those who have forgiven a partner for hurting them deeply, how did you do it?

[riverte]

Boyfriend (DP?) and I are in a good place and have been for a while now. We've been on/off for six years.

On and off because of him fucking up repeatedly. Not cheating.

We are early-mid twenties so I put a lot of it down to immaturity.

Thing is, I still hold a lot of resent toward him. I really want to forgive him, but I haven't, and I don't know how.

How did you do it?

Is there any point? Would you be better of finding someone else and not having a rollercoaster relationship?

You don't, your young. Move on.

You deserve better x

You are in your twenties and don't have DC so I would end it tbh.

I have managed to forgive my DH but I am no longer the same person and don't love him as deeply as I did pre-hurt.