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ATailAsOldAsTime · 21/08/2024 16:26

So I'm really confused and in no way am I saying that I want to get back with my ex (actually in the process of getting a non-mol) but this only just happened and I'm still in alot of shock, so my ex is the most possesive jealous controlling needy cry baby I have ever met like dangerously over bearing he was very jealous of how close i am to my daughter it got to the point where her calling or visiting would be an instant fight.. hed complain and say how she was irritating etc so wed always have issues there, fast forward to yesterday he told her that he likes her abit and wants a bit and not to tell me.. im 39 weeks pregnant she got creeped out and told me straight away on the phone, he came back and told me she was lying etc of course i believe her over him and i called the police to remove him from near my house as he started getting agressive with me, whats really bothering me is has he been watching my daughter this whole time or was he trying to break my bond with her hoping id take his side he had been trying to push her out a while now on the other hand if its not that he's been watching her since she was 12? I feel sick he's literally never in a million years gave any of us a reason to think he's a weirdo up until this point ever, he never looked at another woman he was so glued to me he completely changed these past few months it's like he can't stand me he comments on what I eat and calls me greedy when I eat cereal for breakfast asks me if I've had enough to eat etc I have got big but I'm 9 months pregnant FFS I just can't get my head around it does he really fancy my child I'm still really in shock and disbelief we tried for a year to have this baby my little rainbow baby his first child and all this just before I give birth currently and going forward there's going to be absolutely no contact with him at all full stop once this order goes through he can go the legal route for contact with the baby if that's what he wants

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