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Alone time gone.

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Shithole101 · 10/08/2024 12:58

Was looking forward to having the whole weekend alone. But stuff has come up. So now that's not going to happen . I'm selfishly pissed off . I really had that me time feeling. I had a positive vibe within myself. And now it's not happening.
😥

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RabbitsRock · 10/08/2024 13:02

I feel for you OP. Me time is so precious. Will there be a chance for you to have that time in the coming week or next weekend?

Shithole101 · 10/08/2024 13:19

RabbitsRock · 10/08/2024 13:02

I feel for you OP. Me time is so precious. Will there be a chance for you to have that time in the coming week or next weekend?

In a couple of weeks there is . Still pissed of though. But I will make sure it happens. I'm going to prewarn everyone.

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Shithole101 · 10/08/2024 21:25

I know I'm being extremely selfish. But I have ended up looking after my 2 gs. It is for a good reason. Things need to be sorted out and spoken about.

It's only been for 3hrs so not long really. But I just don't want to look after them . I feel tired and drained. But not for any reason. So yes I'm being really selfish

Is 3hrs long enough to sort things out via talking . I feel like the situation is being used so I don't have a choice but to baby sit longer . To be fair we did not agree in a time

Basically it is important it does need to be sorted out . But im extremely selfish and I don't want to babysit. Especially since I don't have my own kids here 😭

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Shithole101 · 10/08/2024 21:40

I also really wanted a take away for myself. But I have do that either

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Oblomov24 · 10/08/2024 21:41

I hate this. I like and need a lot of alone time and resent when things change and I no longer get it.

Shithole101 · 10/08/2024 21:51

Oblomov24 · 10/08/2024 21:41

I hate this. I like and need a lot of alone time and resent when things change and I no longer get it.

I don't often get it. When I do though it's definitely needed

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Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 10/08/2024 22:52

Will you manage to get some time tomorrow op? It is so rare that l het any, l really cherish it when l do so understand how you must be feeling.

itsmylife7 · 10/08/2024 22:59

You're not being selfish at all OP.

I can understand your disappointment.

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