Just looking for people to chat to, tired, fed up, lonely, had enough off 4 walls.
Basically me and the mother of our children are not living together, we split a couple of years ago (I then suffered bad from mental health) always kept in contact and I saw my children, then she went through a bad patch and I helped her through a really difficult time, both mentally and financially, I always have, together or not.
But recently we had a child a month ago, I've seen him only 4 days, COVID played a part when I visited my parents, but I'm the secret, always have been 🙁
She hasn't told anyone that he is mine, even though we already have 2 children together.
She is always busy rarely speaks, always an excuse if I want to visit or if she is coming down, something always comes up!
We had a huge argument as I don't think he is mine, (yes I know it only takes 1 time) as the dates seem a bit off, surely if the ground is ok you would being seeing your children a lot more, but 2 weeks into the summer holidays and not once have I seen them.
She now thinks our eldest has issues with herself but won't let me get involved with the help? I'm her father and of course I'm concerned,
Just seems like it's her against the world and I help when needed
Sorry just venting