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One long finger nail

25 replies

laura6767 · 03/08/2024 17:30

Does this always mean drug use (specifically cocaine)?
I recently went on a date with a guy who had short nails, apart from a much longer pinky finger nail. I’ve done a quick google search and it seems like the main reasons are drug use, related to certain religions and to pick ear wax from the ear.
This guy is mid thirties, works in finance, and is not religious.
The ear wax thing made me heave. But drugs are a deal breaker for me.
Are there any other reasons for the long pinky nail that anyone else has come across?

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Obeseandashamed · 03/08/2024 17:31

I've no idea but often wondered the same. I've noticed it in Middle Eastern men who wear those silver and turquoise rings too.

StormingNorman · 03/08/2024 17:32

It’s a coke nail

Wahine24 · 03/08/2024 17:54

Yup only ppl I've met with one long fingernail used it for coke supposedly easier than finding a Yale style key (flat kind)

autumn1610 · 03/08/2024 17:55

I’d say coke if it’s a pinky. Only other time I’ve seen it is when someone is a guitar player but it’s not the pinky

AntiHop · 03/08/2024 17:57

They would give me the ick, whatever the reason.

JC03745 · 03/08/2024 18:00

Its to scratch his bum from 1 foot away!

One long finger nail
Els1e · 03/08/2024 18:03

I was once told it was either for coke use or likes to play the spanish guitar. 😁

Berlinlover · 03/08/2024 18:05

Never came across this in my life, you learn something new every day.

RainBow725 · 03/08/2024 18:07

I have a long nail on my little finger and the one next to it on my right hand. I play a stringed instrument and they are the only ones I don't need to have short. Promise I'm not doing coke! Slopes off to cut random two finger nails... 🤣

CheeseWisely · 03/08/2024 18:11

DH (musician, guitar player) says a lot of people who plays acoustic / Spanish guitar do it. In his highly technical words, anyone that plays anything that's 'picky' rather than 'strummy'.

Dontfuckingsaycheese · 03/08/2024 18:14

I don’t cut my fingernails. I just file them smooth again if they snag or break which is quite frequently so they are not long. My little ones sometimes however do grow ridiculously long. I’ve always put it down to those fingers not being as active and involved in the everyday normal non-drug-taking tasks my other fingers get up to… 🤔

MissMoan · 03/08/2024 18:39

I know a few guitarists with one long fingernail for 'picking'

kitsuneghost · 03/08/2024 18:44

Don't be ridiculous.
My left pinkie nail is longer as it is least used so less likely to break.

Strawberriesandpimms · 03/08/2024 18:44

Surely if the guy played a stringed instrument he would have mentioned his hobby on your date? Unlike using his pinkie for ear cleaning or coke, which I imagine he might keep schtum about 🤔

TapToSkip · 03/08/2024 18:51

If he works in finance, my money would be on the drugs rather than guitar.

MillshakePickle · 03/08/2024 18:53

Coke or guitar

PurpleChrayn · 03/08/2024 18:55

Whatever it's for, it's fucking disgusting.

loudbatperson · 03/08/2024 18:55

Long pinky finger + working in finance is almost definitely a coke head.

Steer clear, utter bores.

Foxxo · 03/08/2024 18:58

im in the ear scratchers category.

in my defence i have eczema and they advise against sticking cotton buds in your ears to scratch, so i use my pinky finger nails (yes i wash after, i'm not entirely gross)

tuvamoodyson · 03/08/2024 19:01

CheeseWisely · 03/08/2024 18:11

DH (musician, guitar player) says a lot of people who plays acoustic / Spanish guitar do it. In his highly technical words, anyone that plays anything that's 'picky' rather than 'strummy'.

Yes, I was going to say maybe he plays Spanish guitar!

theurbanpigeon · 03/08/2024 19:12

To second PPs, finance + pinky nail is almost defo coke. You can probably find out pretty quickly if he plays any musical instruments though!

newtomoney · 03/08/2024 19:12

FFS are you ALL so unknowing ??.

A long pinky finger on an Asian man means he doesn't have to engage in manual work !,!,

Nothing to do with drug use . Asian cultures are EXTREMELY status driven . Manual work means you are planting rice or farming/ carpentry etc which cannot be done with long fingernails.

NeedWineNow · 03/08/2024 19:15

No. My friend is a book conservator and he has a long nail for when he’s working with gold leaf. He’s done coke in the past but definitely not now!

Wahine24 · 03/08/2024 19:38

@newtomoney where did she say he was an "Asian man" ?

StormingNorman · 04/08/2024 08:26

newtomoney · 03/08/2024 19:12

FFS are you ALL so unknowing ??.

A long pinky finger on an Asian man means he doesn't have to engage in manual work !,!,

Nothing to do with drug use . Asian cultures are EXTREMELY status driven . Manual work means you are planting rice or farming/ carpentry etc which cannot be done with long fingernails.

Was OP’s date Asian?

And no, I didn’t know that about Asian men despite having worked with many in office jobs.Because they didn’t have an icky long fingernail.

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