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A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB

82 replies

Stereofind · 23/07/2024 15:45

I don't know who he is, he only has 2 friends, so I assume it's all fake. Obviously the picture isn't real, but is it likely to be a real person behind the account or a bot?

What's the scam? What are they hoping to get from me?

He really is dreamy to look at 😆

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Mumoftwochildrenand6furkids · 23/07/2024 21:13

Had loads of them scam requests , there always americans working overseas in the forces but they dont sound american, their widows and have children am not sure how to but i know theres an page where you can reverse goggles picture and see the real image and who its stole off.

Soditsally · 24/07/2024 06:09

These scammers used to be all over the Fitbit community - which no longer exists

Yes , mine blocked me after I asked him for money , how rude !

They were usually army medics , widowed , one child at boarding school ,
Or oil riggers .. that was another popular one 🤬

GrumpyPanda · 24/07/2024 06:31

The best reverse scam I've ever read actually managed to make the scammer take a trip to another African country to meet up 😁 High art.

MattDamonIsMyLover · 24/07/2024 06:43

What do you mean these are scams? 😱

ForGreyKoala · 24/07/2024 06:46

Ignore it - I get lots of them

Redglitter · 24/07/2024 06:49

Echobelly · 23/07/2024 21:11

I replied to one of these guys once for a laugh but it got boring quickly. None of the people operating the account could speak or write beyond the most basic English (it was multiple people evidently as there was no continuity) and couldn't even respond to obvious questions, just kept repeating that I was beautiful and they loved me and they wanted to marry me. 🙄 I have no idea how they were supposed to get anywhere unless they found an exceptionally lonely women who spoke some rudimentary English as a secondary language and couldn't see how bad their English skills were.

That's exactly the same as the one I started chatting to. I was all set to see how outlandish I could make my life but once he'd got my (fake) photo it's was just declarations of undying love. I expected better of a very important military surgeon.

I was hoping it would be entertaining enough to keep up the pretence to see what he was going to hit me for financially but I got bored and blocked him

OldTinHat · 24/07/2024 07:32

There's an American guy on Tiktok called Chad Huber (or something similar). He winds these people up and his videos are quite hilarious. 'Catfishing the Catfisher'.

mildlydispeptic · 24/07/2024 08:11

usernother · 23/07/2024 15:55

Do a reverse image search. You'll find out who it really is.

This!

Blondeshavemorefun · 25/07/2024 17:37

Well I have just had 3 more

All widowed

All so not my type

😂😂😂😂

A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB
A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB
A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB
fourelementary · 25/07/2024 17:43

@Stereofind show us yours and then we can all friend him and swoon at his photo?!

JackieO22 · 25/07/2024 19:58

Stereofind · 23/07/2024 16:52

How do you do that, just out-of interest?

I took a screenshot and looked it up using Google lens on Google photos

edwinbear · 25/07/2024 20:03

Duncan James from Blue sent me a friend request on FB. He was my huge teenage crush. I was gutted when I realised this ‘Duncan James’ only had 2 other friends. My heart shattered into a thousand pieces 🤣

JackieO22 · 25/07/2024 20:04

Here's my 'admirer' and his many names 🤣

A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB
Blondeshavemorefun · 25/07/2024 20:41

Least yours are young. Mine look in their 70/80's

ToplessWordle · 25/07/2024 21:14

The other thing they might do (although perhaps they save this trick for young people) is persuade you to send intimate photos/nudes, then blackmail you with the threat of releasing your pics to all your contacts unless you pay them.

MumofSpud · 25/07/2024 21:37

I get one of these every so often on FB - actually I got one a couple of days ago - he is very v handsome and was wearing doctor scrubs (those green ones)
I showed my DD (teen) and said I bet he hasn't got many friends and sure enough he had 6 - all middle aged women (like me!)

Yes - a scam, as others have said I guess at some point he would be asking for money!

OnTheBoardwalk · 25/07/2024 22:44

This is my latest. I do wonder where they find me. I have very limited friends and only interact on closed groups. I’m thinking it must be my friends lists

A very good looking man has sent me a friend request on FB
RAFOfficer · 25/07/2024 23:32

I once got a random message from what looked like a cute guy, claiming to be ex-military and in the US aviation industry. There’s nothing visible on my FB profile that gives any hint of my job, so I messaged back thinking we potentially had a mutual friend as I’ve worked with quite a few USAF guys over the years. Very quickly became clear that whoever was on the other end knew absolutely nothing about aviation and only slightly more about the English language!

Never had another one since… 😂

NeverMindTheBackProblems · 26/07/2024 00:08

There sure seems to be an lot of handsome widowers in the US Military just looking for friends from random women on FB. Funny, since I put a photo of me and DP as my profile pic I don't seem to have had any more friend requests.

Tarquina · 26/07/2024 01:07

I get at least three such requests every week and have done since the day I joined Facebook 10 years ago.

WearyAuldWumman · 26/07/2024 01:28

Lisbeth50 · 23/07/2024 16:47

I get this quite a lot. They are usually "doctors" or in the military and look like George Clooney...

:D I had a "Surgeon General" who was in the military.

I'm a widow, but have kept my status as married. I seem to be irresistible, however. Must be my age that's attracting them - I'm 64.

ramblingfool · 26/07/2024 01:35

Just a lost soul looking to connect with a kind lady online, amirite?

ramblingfool · 26/07/2024 01:36

WearyAuldWumman · 26/07/2024 01:28

:D I had a "Surgeon General" who was in the military.

I'm a widow, but have kept my status as married. I seem to be irresistible, however. Must be my age that's attracting them - I'm 64.

Only 64? Spring chicken yet.

Savemydrink · 26/07/2024 01:37

Stereofind · 23/07/2024 15:58

Oh, he is in uniform and in one pic there's a dog too 😆

So sad that there enough women likely to fall for it, that it's worth their while trying.

Dohhh he sounds like the one that friend requested me, I thought I was special ha ha ha

I deleted him anyway along with all the other requests from people iv'e never heard of.

Mind you, he wouldn't get any money out of me anyway, I'm as tight as a ducks arse.

WearyAuldWumman · 26/07/2024 01:41

ramblingfool · 26/07/2024 01:36

Only 64? Spring chicken yet.

I wish!