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toddler...newborn...and a puppy ?

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AnxietyLevelMax · 22/07/2024 14:42

Hi All,

So my husband and I have been thinking about getting a puppy for over a year now. We didn't want to rush it when he was working away from 5am till 8pm. but he has much better job now for almost a year (no crazy hours) and currently are going through a vetting for a different position which could lead up to even better hours than now.

We have decided this is it. we will be getting a puppy, we will take some time off each from work for a training etc. we have told our 3.5yr old toddler who is over the moon...and BOOM...I am pregnant again :)

Has anyone dealt with a newborn, toddler, new puppy and found it all manageable? We are thinking of getting one but before or right after baby is due, not now as we would not like to take any unnecessary holidays.

Are we crazy to even think about it ?

just to add...both of us always had dogs, grew up with dogs, and having a dog is nothing new to us, but it was all before we became a family. in my case I had my grandmom living with us (my parents and siblings) so we did not have any issues with separation anxiety or leaving it with someone during holidays..

OP posts:
AnxietyLevelMax · 22/07/2024 20:45

@5475878237NC please dont call me selfish. Its not right. You dont know me and this kind of judgment isnt right.

well i guess we are going to wait then.
thank you all for your inputs

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RoachFish · 22/07/2024 20:54

@AnxietyLevelMax it wasn’t me who called you selfish but it really would be very selfish to get a puppy anytime in the next few years. It’s a newborn living creature with feelings and needs that you will not be able to meet with a toddler and a baby. Poodles and cockers are both high need breeds, it’s not in their best interest to be neglected just so that you don’t have to upset your son.

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