I’m a 29 year old woman. I have had such a history of failed dating and relationships it’s shocking. I was with my ex for 5 years. He cheated and left. I then started dating a new guy after. We had sex around month 4 of dating. He kept on and on about the sexual chemistry and couldn’t keep his hands off me. I shoulda known he was a player. He then went away on holiday. He came back and asked if I was free, I’d give him days and he’d just have some form of an excuse every time.
i eventually cut it all off bc it was too much messing about. I said it wasn’t working and maybe other things. Anyway, afterwards I realised I said some very nasty things so I did say look I’m not interested in starting anything again but name calling was nasty of me sorry. He then said it’s fine, I figured I’d be honest at that point and say. Why did you flake so much, why didn’t you share your disinterest before we had sex. He said “no it wasn’t before. It was after I came back from my holiday and having time away”
SORRY what the actual hell, who even says that. In my head it’s either. Well you rejected me and now I want to be nasty to you, or, we had sex I got what I needed OR I had a shag on holiday OR I’m seeing someone else and you’re not the priority.
idk which one. But why be so rediculous and drag something out and ask when a woman’s free only to mess her around to the point she calls it a day.
Can anyone shine some light on this. And yes I am stupid, and lack confidence.