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Those with vocal fry, speaking really quickly, going up and down in tone....

84 replies

MadameMassiveSalad · 12/07/2024 11:20

Whyyyyy?
It drives me insane!
You sound so stupid.
Stop please just stop !!!

There. I've said it. 🧘🏻‍♀️

OP posts:
skyfalldown · 12/07/2024 13:07

Funny how people only seem to get annoyed by vocal fry when women do it... I've never once heard anyone complain about the way Matthew Mcconaughey sounds

DragonFly98 · 12/07/2024 13:12

LessOfThis · 12/07/2024 12:31

I couldn’t watch to the end of the video. A man telling a young girl to shut up. How original.

He wasn't ,and if you had watched to the end it would have been obvious to you.

Brefugee · 12/07/2024 13:16

banivani · 12/07/2024 11:56

Allow me to link to this video by linguist Dr Geoff Lindsey about vocal fry - it does help in getting over the annoyance (a bit). The fun fact that all Finns speak with vocal fry was a real eye opener for me

i have a bit of a crush on Dr Geoff Lindsey, and much as i love him i watched that video when it came out and couldn't make it to the end.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 12/07/2024 13:47

I've never heard anyone speak like this and I don't understand why anyone would one to make themselves sound like a croaking frog when they speak 😂

separatedornot · 12/07/2024 14:05

skyfalldown · 12/07/2024 13:07

Funny how people only seem to get annoyed by vocal fry when women do it... I've never once heard anyone complain about the way Matthew Mcconaughey sounds

I get annoyed when my husband does it. He's male.

lawnseed · 12/07/2024 14:05

They sound like they've been smoking too many woodbines then spent the night yelling at someone.

Rough as hell.

poppiepudding · 13/07/2024 12:47

LessOfThis · 12/07/2024 12:31

I couldn’t watch to the end of the video. A man telling a young girl to shut up. How original.

I am reading this in vocal fry ...

MadameMassiveSalad · 13/07/2024 13:03

DoNotScrapeMyDataBishes · 12/07/2024 13:07

On the other hand my kid can stick their sigma rizz down the skibbidy toilet at the moment cos they're just making themselves sound like a right prat.

I hear ya bruh

OP posts:
Vettrianofan · 13/07/2024 13:08

Now I understand....yes thats annoying.

Soozikinzii · 13/07/2024 13:12

O yes the vocal fry is a particular pet hate of mine Zooey Deschael has a really bad one. It just sounds like they cba even speaking.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2024 13:13

Oh the squeaky voice thing! I used to have a friend who talked normally to women, but as soon as she started speaking to a man her voice went up the register a couple of notches and she sounded like a little girl! I don't think she was aware that she was doing it, but someone pointed it out and then we couldn't unhear it...

BiscuityBoyle · 13/07/2024 13:20

We live in a rough town where many people have an ‘innit bruv’ accent. We went out for lunch in another town last week which is far more posh.
The number of people, mainly younger women, around us who were speaking with vocal fry was noticeable.
The towns are 5 miles apart.

HangingOver · 13/07/2024 13:21

GoingRate · 12/07/2024 11:26

Here ya go - vocal fry

Oh whyyyyy did I click on it 🤣

CassandraWebb · 13/07/2024 13:22

DoNotScrapeMyDataBishes · 12/07/2024 13:07

On the other hand my kid can stick their sigma rizz down the skibbidy toilet at the moment cos they're just making themselves sound like a right prat.

Hahah out children started talking like that so DH and I just started using those words too and now they have all stopped

CassandraWebb · 13/07/2024 13:25

Boring preachy post alert but while I get the point, and realise it is often an affectation, please realise some people can't help how their voices sound. I have a condition (myasthenia ) that causes bulbar muscle weakness and when I have been talking a lot, or when I am tired, my speech can go slurred or nasal or croaky or breathy or squeaky and there is nothing I can do about it.

Shitandrun · 13/07/2024 13:34

What's the difference between vocal fry and a hoarse, throaty voice? Mikey Cyrus speaks similarly but I thinks it's her actual voice.

Demelzatheredhaired · 13/07/2024 13:37

Not a Leonard Cohen fan then OP?

LiterallyOnFire · 13/07/2024 13:44

EasterlyDirections · 12/07/2024 11:21

What? I have never heard of vocal fry.

Gosh. Where have you been? I envy you. Grin

RainbowZebraWarrior · 13/07/2024 13:48

skyfalldown · 12/07/2024 13:07

Funny how people only seem to get annoyed by vocal fry when women do it... I've never once heard anyone complain about the way Matthew Mcconaughey sounds

I once had a date with a guy who bragged he could do an amazing Matthew Mc impression and said all women who heard it fell under his spell.

I didn't know who MM was, and told him to shut up as I wasn't interested in an impression of someone I didn't know. Or being lumped together with 'all women' for that matter. (My pet hate)

I did google later on though.

Matthew Mc is an irritating arse with a stupidly affected, annoying drawly voice.
The bloke I was on a date with was a bellend.
Some people have a weird view of what's sexy.

BiscuityBoyle · 13/07/2024 13:51

Is the male version that gruff mumbling that seems to be so common in films and tv shows? The one where you can’t actually hear what they are saying and have to put the subtitles on.

BiscuityBoyle · 13/07/2024 13:53

Demelzatheredhaired · 13/07/2024 13:37

Not a Leonard Cohen fan then OP?

It’s not a hoarse or gravelly voice over the whole sentence though.

It’s normal, normal, normal, graaaavly fiiiinish.

Demelzatheredhaired · 13/07/2024 14:02

BiscuityBoyle · 13/07/2024 13:53

It’s not a hoarse or gravelly voice over the whole sentence though.

It’s normal, normal, normal, graaaavly fiiiinish.

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Vocal fry is just a slightly different way of holding your vocal chords. There’s no intrinsic meaning or universal aesthetic meaning in to it. I wouldn’t call using it an affectation either. People subconsciously and sometimes consciously imitate the speech of people around them. That’s how speech works. We all copy each other and end up speaking the same language. If OP is interpreting vocal fry at the end of a sentence as meaning the speaker is stupid (probably only if she’s a woman right OP?) then that probably says more about her prejudices against young women (or young American women perhaps?) than it does about vocal fry itself.

TheresMillionsSaidGeoffrey · 13/07/2024 14:05

I blame the OG vocal fry Paris Hilton, Kim was her assistant and it must've rubbed off.

LiterallyOnFire · 13/07/2024 14:06

CassandraWebb · 13/07/2024 13:25

Boring preachy post alert but while I get the point, and realise it is often an affectation, please realise some people can't help how their voices sound. I have a condition (myasthenia ) that causes bulbar muscle weakness and when I have been talking a lot, or when I am tired, my speech can go slurred or nasal or croaky or breathy or squeaky and there is nothing I can do about it.

Oh I think it's easy to tell the difference between an (enraging) affectation and a vocal difference.

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