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To feel overwhelmed a lot?

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Thunderandlightningisfrightening · 09/07/2024 21:24

Late 30s. One child and in a relationship. Child is 6 and to my ex who has started doing more as she's got older. He does about 30 percent of care 2 weeknights and 1 weekend in 4. I work 4 days in senior job with 45 mins commute. One weekday off a week and weekends.
I go the gym 3 times a week.
I have time to do things ie clean the house etc but I just feel overwhelmed alot. There's a lot of shows etc on for end of term I have to work around and going on holiday and general life but I don't think I should feel like this ?

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Lyracappul · 09/07/2024 21:28

thats how my anxiety shows itself. Overwhelmed and then I freeze. Excercise on rowing machine helps and walking outside and I’m medicated on lexapro.

Thunderandlightningisfrightening · 09/07/2024 21:29

Maybe I'm like my mum. She's retired but still says she's got loads to do lol.

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FloatyBoaty · 09/07/2024 21:34

Yep am with you.

Single parent to a 7 year old. “coparent” with my ex amicably enough but the split is about 85/15 in terms of actual hours, with me doing the majority, and all of the life admin etc. for our son falls to me.

I also work 5 days a week in a really intense creative job, and am trying to progress my career (been stalled for a while), and have periods of intense busy-ness and mad deadlines (in the midst of one of them now).

This week, I have 3 separate projects to deliver, DS has come down with chicken pox, end of year school shenanigans to navigate, 6 week holidays are looming with the endless juggle, and my house looks like I’ve been burgled. Haven’t been on a date for 7 years. Don’t get time to exercise. Rarely go out with friends - though I do make sure I have and maintain friendships as best I can (which sometimes feels like One More Thing, but it’s important and they’re people I love)

Ive taken on an allotment to try and get some exercise/ reconnect with the world and for my mental health, which is helping, but in general I feel about one wobble away from a complete nervous breakdown.

Thunderandlightningisfrightening · 09/07/2024 21:58

FloatyBoaty · 09/07/2024 21:34

Yep am with you.

Single parent to a 7 year old. “coparent” with my ex amicably enough but the split is about 85/15 in terms of actual hours, with me doing the majority, and all of the life admin etc. for our son falls to me.

I also work 5 days a week in a really intense creative job, and am trying to progress my career (been stalled for a while), and have periods of intense busy-ness and mad deadlines (in the midst of one of them now).

This week, I have 3 separate projects to deliver, DS has come down with chicken pox, end of year school shenanigans to navigate, 6 week holidays are looming with the endless juggle, and my house looks like I’ve been burgled. Haven’t been on a date for 7 years. Don’t get time to exercise. Rarely go out with friends - though I do make sure I have and maintain friendships as best I can (which sometimes feels like One More Thing, but it’s important and they’re people I love)

Ive taken on an allotment to try and get some exercise/ reconnect with the world and for my mental health, which is helping, but in general I feel about one wobble away from a complete nervous breakdown.

But you have a lot more on than me!

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popandchoc · 09/07/2024 22:16

I am a single parent with two children , I have them most the time. Their dad prob has them 1-2 weekends a month (more in holidays).
I also work 4 days a week . I am feeling very overwhelmed at the moment with everything end of term happening at the same time as some work deadlines due. Got end of term parents evening/shows and my eldest is away with school which has made me quite anxious.
I do suffer from anxiety which seems to have reared its head more the last few weeks and i think is making the overwhelm worse at the moment.

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