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Something to celebrate being a year sober? Afternoon tea? Something else?

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Pinkdogs · 07/07/2024 19:10

I'm nearing a year sober and feel like it's one of my biggest achievements. It has been hard following a few really hard years and feel it deserves celebration. I'm so proud of myself. I know I should just be happy with that but I want to do something to mark the occasion. Afternoon tea? Posh breakfast? Probably central London. I'd like to treat a few friends who have been amazing to me over the last few years. Grateful for ideas if anyone can suggest an idea or location. Thank you!

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LetSleepingcatssleep · 07/07/2024 20:04

No recs to give but this sounds a lovely way to mark you being sober for a year; I hope you find somewhere amazing.

saveforthat · 07/07/2024 20:11

I can't think of anything of the top of my head but could you do something that would be impossible to do if you were drinking e.g driving somewhere out of London having a meal and driving back the same day? I never do this, I always stay over so I can have a drink.

mindutopia · 07/07/2024 20:27

I went for a walk and a wild swim and had cake and AF fizz. I think a fancy afternoon tea sounds like a lovely idea especially if you have friends you want to invite along. And amazing accomplishment as well! Congrats to you! 🎉

Pinkdogs · 07/07/2024 21:42

saveforthat · 07/07/2024 20:11

I can't think of anything of the top of my head but could you do something that would be impossible to do if you were drinking e.g driving somewhere out of London having a meal and driving back the same day? I never do this, I always stay over so I can have a drink.

Lovely idea but my friends are so spread out. Somewhere in central London would be easier

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Pinkdogs · 07/07/2024 21:42

LetSleepingcatssleep · 07/07/2024 20:04

No recs to give but this sounds a lovely way to mark you being sober for a year; I hope you find somewhere amazing.

Thank you!

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Pinkdogs · 07/07/2024 21:43

mindutopia · 07/07/2024 20:27

I went for a walk and a wild swim and had cake and AF fizz. I think a fancy afternoon tea sounds like a lovely idea especially if you have friends you want to invite along. And amazing accomplishment as well! Congrats to you! 🎉

Thank you! Nearly there

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Lavender14 · 07/07/2024 21:44

What about a spa trip to mark a year of self care with some extra lovely self care? Then you can add lunch or dinner etc if you want to. Well done on your achievement and hard work.

GreenShady · 07/07/2024 23:38

Not what you asked but I bought myself a lovely cashmere scarf as a reward after one year sober! Just coming up to 7 years now.
Enjoy your day whatever you do and well done 😊

Wallabyone · 07/07/2024 23:41

Amazing-well done! I loved afternoon tea at Fortnum and Mason...there's a real sense of occasion there and you can have wander round the lovely shop before heading to the tearoom x

Kittensat36 · 07/07/2024 23:42

Bird and Blend do mixology classes where you can make AF tea cocktails. Tea has been my saviour since becoming sober. There's one in Islington that I can recommend.

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