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What’s wrong with men

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ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:12

Was chatting to a guy on a dating app. The guy was absolutely stunning. Like just totally my type.

first I said I wasn’t well when I wanted a drink at like 8 pm. Then he said “no I’ll pay for ur uber just come” I said “no” then later on he went “I’m lowkey pissed that you didn’t come out” I’m like what the hell man I’ve spoke to you for approx a week. How can you be annoyed. Make it make sense.

On a few occasions he’s just randomly called me “dumb” like for example I said “I haven’t got make up on I’m not coming” he went “just come you dummy” or “it’s Saturday get up and out dickhead”

like honestly. These men are something else on the dating apps. They’re so stupid.

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Tippet · 07/07/2024 00:29

There's more than one person being stupid in this tale of woe.

CHEESEY13 · 07/07/2024 00:31

Sorry, but I can't make much sense of this particular thread.

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:33

Tippet · 07/07/2024 00:29

There's more than one person being stupid in this tale of woe.

Yes me. Fantastic.

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FauxOutrage · 07/07/2024 00:33

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tootootdriver · 07/07/2024 00:33

Someone's been on the wine

MonsteraMama · 07/07/2024 00:34

So your type is very attractive wankers?

MrsTerryPratchett · 07/07/2024 00:35

first I said I wasn’t well when I wanted a drink at like 8 pm.

What does this mean?

HowIrresponsible · 07/07/2024 00:35

Was chatting to a guy on a dating app. The guy was absolutely stunning. Like just totally my type.

In assuming he's totally your type he isn't the only stupid one

PalePurplePumpkin · 07/07/2024 00:36

Like yeah, like what's wrong with men like?

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ReadyTeddy1000 · 07/07/2024 00:37

I can't see a massive amount that he's said wrong?
Low key pissed isn't a big deal.
"You dummy" isn't lovely, but it's not a massive thing.

Not coming out due to lack of makeup is bizarre- if he's totally your type and you don't want to go out makeup-free, then honestly you could take 20 mins to properly sort yourself out before going.

LittleGreenDragons · 07/07/2024 00:38

first I said I wasn’t well when I wanted a drink at like 8 pm.
Why would you want a drink when you are ill?

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:55

ReadyTeddy1000 · 07/07/2024 00:37

I can't see a massive amount that he's said wrong?
Low key pissed isn't a big deal.
"You dummy" isn't lovely, but it's not a massive thing.

Not coming out due to lack of makeup is bizarre- if he's totally your type and you don't want to go out makeup-free, then honestly you could take 20 mins to properly sort yourself out before going.

Surely calling a woman a dickhead isn’t very nice.

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ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:55

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:55

Surely calling a woman a dickhead isn’t very nice.

Then he said “I’m a bit pissed off you didn’t come out” well why would you be, I barely even know you!

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He also kept telling me to come out at 11pm and calling me baby, telling me I would go if I cared etc. it’s too much.

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Emily1583 · 07/07/2024 02:30

Your type is the players obviously.

AutumnCrow · 07/07/2024 02:43

It totally depends on what sort of drink you wanted

Aquamarine1029 · 07/07/2024 02:49

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:55

Then he said “I’m a bit pissed off you didn’t come out” well why would you be, I barely even know you!

YES, and you don't even know him, yet you call him "stunning" and totally your type. You have formed a completely false attachment to a fucking stranger. Honestly, it's just madness.

like honestly. These men are something else on the dating apps. They’re so stupid.

You are behaving the exact same way, and you don't even see it.

MeinKraft · 07/07/2024 03:34

What's wrong with him is he thinks he can text you and get sex delivered to his house, just like ordering a takeaway.

Edingril · 07/07/2024 03:42

You can't do something because you need to wear make-up?

I find men and women equally weird sometimes

RenegadeMasterx · 07/07/2024 03:48

It's really not that deep.

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Garlickest · 07/07/2024 04:12

He's a wanker.

ReadyTeddy1000 · 07/07/2024 13:41

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 00:55

Then he said “I’m a bit pissed off you didn’t come out” well why would you be, I barely even know you!

You said "lowkey pissed" in the op. The use of language implies different meaning and tone.
Low-key pissed and pissed off aren't the same thing.

ForOliveShaker · 07/07/2024 13:49

ReadyTeddy1000 · 07/07/2024 13:41

You said "lowkey pissed" in the op. The use of language implies different meaning and tone.
Low-key pissed and pissed off aren't the same thing.

Why would anyone be pissed at that anyway. May I also add he told me he doesn’t like women who talk about “independence and all that bullshit”

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