I befriended a person who recently moved to my town from abroad. We had some things in common, all was well. Over time she made friends with other people, all fine. I began to notice however that I was constantly hosting her at my house. I don't mind have people around but I kind of would have liked an invite to her house occasionally, just to reciprocate. I purposely started to hold back on the invites to come over, and noticed that she would send texts asking how I was, etc, but if I didn't jump in quickly with "come on over for a coffee" the conversation would quickly peter out. I think I'm just a person to visit when she wants out of her own place and a break from her family. What do you think?