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Is this disability discrimination?

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Disabilitydiscrimination · 30/06/2024 10:26

I have to have a night in a city but when I looked the only place I could afford was a youth hostel.
I booked and then emailed them to say I would need to have a bottom bunk due to disability. I explained I could do stairs but can't negotiate ladders which I'd need to for a top bunk. They took ages to reply and when they finally did they basically said they would try their best but couldn't guarantee it.

I genuinely don't understand why with several weeks notice they can't do this. Bunks are allocated so just allocate a bottom bunk. I could understand if it was last minute but it wasn't.

Is this disability discrimination?

I don't go away often and have learnt that next time I should check these things before booking but I really didn't think it would be a problem.

OP posts:
MurielThrockmorton · 01/07/2024 21:53

Duh · 01/07/2024 21:36

Jesus the ableist comments on here make me despair.

I hope you get it sorted OP, the law is on your side here.

I agree. I wondered whether some of it was the standard anonymous online trolling or whether people genuinely do think disabled people shouldn't have the same opportunities as others. Anyway sorry OP you're needing to hear these.

OneShyLimeBird · 01/07/2024 22:00

Disabilitydiscrimination · 01/07/2024 21:33

I wanted to and my disabilities shouldn't hinder my career progression.

What is the line of work

atticstage · 01/07/2024 22:08

MurielThrockmorton · 01/07/2024 21:53

I agree. I wondered whether some of it was the standard anonymous online trolling or whether people genuinely do think disabled people shouldn't have the same opportunities as others. Anyway sorry OP you're needing to hear these.

Discrimination threads always go this way. Ignorant people with zero knowledge of the law wading in and giving the op a kicking.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

sandyhappypeople · 01/07/2024 22:22

Have you actually asked they why they can't guarantee it OP? For instance if they say beds are allocated on arrival, and you arrive last out of everyone, chances are they could all be taken, but if you arrive first you can obviously have your choice of bed? or is it some other reason?

On the face of it it seems quite an easy request to fulfil, especially on disability grounds. I'd ask them to elaborate on the reasoning before you decide to not go, as if there may be some way to ensure you get one.

Is there an event on in the city that night? A lot of the time prices for hotels/accommodation skyrocket and places are extremely limited if there is.

Duh · 10/07/2024 08:00

OP did this get sorted for you?

Blackcats7 · 10/07/2024 08:21

You are quite right OP. Mumsnetters in general have little understanding or empathy for your situation most having never faced it themselves. The constant disabled bashing threads show that.
I would make a complaint in writing to the most senior person responsible and ask for an explanation.

Disabilitydiscrimination · 10/07/2024 20:02

Duh · 10/07/2024 08:00

OP did this get sorted for you?

No it didn't. I've been told someone will contact me but they haven't yet. I missed the conference.

OP posts:
Duh · 10/07/2024 20:23

Disabilitydiscrimination · 10/07/2024 20:02

No it didn't. I've been told someone will contact me but they haven't yet. I missed the conference.

I’m so sorry to hear that OP. It’s not right, morally or legally.

Pepsipepsi · 10/07/2024 21:36

That's really shit op, gutted for you :(
I was just on another disability thread and people seemed to have much more sympathy for the op. Reminded me to check in with you. Really sorry it didn't work out xx

MurielThrockmorton · 11/07/2024 07:02

Yeah, I feel angry for you as well OP, I hope somebody takes you seriously and although it's too late this time offers a solution for next time.

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