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Ella2001 · 28/06/2024 21:04

ive found this forum to be very helpful with people offering advice and chatting away to me that I thought I’d create this thread for anyone who’s going through same and could use some online company
im 23 and suffer really bad anxiety and ocd managing to cope with it without medication. I have an 8 month old daughter .
tonight is one of those nights where I just want to be told I’m going to be okay and for a hug :(
how is everyone ? What did everyone get up to / have for their dinner etc ?

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AmelieTaylor · 28/06/2024 22:10

You're not going to be 'ok'

you're going to be FAR better than that!!

You have a beautiful baby & your whole life ahead of you. I too am old enough to be your Mum, but I wish I was your age again with a baby daughter.

try not to stress about any small stuff, & be happy. - life's too short.

what they say is true. The days are long but the years are short & fly by!

big hugs & I hope you have a good weekend , it should be nice, sunny but not too hot!!

honeyfox · 28/06/2024 22:15

@Ella2001 Maybe trying therapy for OCD first might help, there might be some free resources online? I do understand, I have some OCD behaviours myself.

Panaeng is like a Thai red curry, I don't make it myself, just buy a premade bottle from the local butchers 😊

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 28/06/2024 22:15

Hug incoming 🐻

I remember the relentless daily slog of single parenthood with a 8mo and little support...and now he's a teenager I would go back and live it all again in a heartbeat!

Not because he's difficult (he's an angel tbh) but because looking back it was such a special time. If you'd told me that back then I would have laughed in your face 🤣

So today - home from work at 6, cut most of the hedge, picked up teenager, made him a cordon bleu dinner courtesy of Chicago town 🍕 and stole a piece for my dinner!
Having a glass of red now while watching Glastonbury

You've got this I promise you x

Ella2001 · 28/06/2024 22:21

mrswhiplington · 28/06/2024 22:07

I've just had a hot buttered crumpet.😄

I'm much older than you OP but I still have days feeling anxious and stressed. Sometimes it gets the better of me but I always pull through in the end. Keep focusing on the good things in life. I'm on my second glass of wine and feeling quite relaxed for a change.😁

Hope you’re having a lovely night :) x

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Ella2001 · 28/06/2024 22:22

AmelieTaylor · 28/06/2024 22:10

You're not going to be 'ok'

you're going to be FAR better than that!!

You have a beautiful baby & your whole life ahead of you. I too am old enough to be your Mum, but I wish I was your age again with a baby daughter.

try not to stress about any small stuff, & be happy. - life's too short.

what they say is true. The days are long but the years are short & fly by!

big hugs & I hope you have a good weekend , it should be nice, sunny but not too hot!!

This is really lovely , thank you 🫶🏻💗

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Ella2001 · 28/06/2024 22:22

honeyfox · 28/06/2024 22:15

@Ella2001 Maybe trying therapy for OCD first might help, there might be some free resources online? I do understand, I have some OCD behaviours myself.

Panaeng is like a Thai red curry, I don't make it myself, just buy a premade bottle from the local butchers 😊

I need to look into it !
ohhh I’ve never heard of it ! Sounds lovely. X

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Ella2001 · 28/06/2024 22:24

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 28/06/2024 22:15

Hug incoming 🐻

I remember the relentless daily slog of single parenthood with a 8mo and little support...and now he's a teenager I would go back and live it all again in a heartbeat!

Not because he's difficult (he's an angel tbh) but because looking back it was such a special time. If you'd told me that back then I would have laughed in your face 🤣

So today - home from work at 6, cut most of the hedge, picked up teenager, made him a cordon bleu dinner courtesy of Chicago town 🍕 and stole a piece for my dinner!
Having a glass of red now while watching Glastonbury

You've got this I promise you x

i know I’m going to miss it , she’s an Angel and she’s an easy baby but I just get so overwhelmed doing it alone sometimes , this is really lovely thank you so much 🫶🏻 sounds lovely enjoy the rest of your night x

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