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If you were to meet a member of the royal family would you bow/curtsey etc?

226 replies

Blackcats7 · 27/06/2024 22:05

I support the royal family in general in that I don't want to see the institution abolished but I would like to see some changes which I think change will come in time with Charles and then William.
It occurred to me that in the highly unlikely/impossible scenario I ever met a member of the royal family I could not agree to curtsey or call them sir, ma'am, your majesty etc. I would want to be polite and friendly but I just could not show that deference to anyone.
Would you follow royal protocol or just be polite but not excessively deferential?

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mupersum1 · 27/06/2024 22:07

Absolutely not. I think it would be strange for someone to bow / courtesy if they don't buy into the idea that they are 'better than' or somehow have authority over us?

It's all so archaic, bizarre in 2024!

MrsLeonFarrell · 27/06/2024 22:19

Probably. During covid when we couldn't shake hands I did a regency bob to greet people (and because I could pretend I was in a Jane Austen dramatisation).

I quite like protocol because it's odd and different and fun, like Trooping the Colour. Doesn't make me think I'm below the royals, I see it like using the correct fork or wine glass, part of making life a little bit weirder.

HeadacheEarthquake · 27/06/2024 22:22

Absolutely not. They can bow to me first if they want the favour returned. It's wrong on every level.

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HelloJillll · 27/06/2024 22:22

Absolutely not. Nor would I call them ‘your highness/majesty’. They done nothing to deserve that level of respect other than being born.

Horses7 · 27/06/2024 22:24

No

meimyself · 27/06/2024 22:24

I would

Eeeden · 27/06/2024 22:24

I could not bow or curtsy to anyone. I'd feel daft. I am not impressed by 'royalty' but would be polite if I met them as I am when meeting people.

Churchview · 27/06/2024 22:24

I have (the old Duke of Edinburgh) and I didn't.

Arlanymor · 27/06/2024 22:26

Absolutely not.

MikeRafone · 27/06/2024 22:26

No, I wouldn’t bow to anyone. I’m not interested in meeting anyone from the RF though so highly unlikely it would occur

2Rebecca · 27/06/2024 22:27

Yes although only have a vague adea how

IAmAnAdultHumanFemale · 27/06/2024 22:28

Yes I would then regale my friends and family for years after

Veritysays897 · 27/06/2024 22:29

No I wouldn't. I would greet them how I would greet anyone else. Politely. But no I wouldn't curtsey on principle.

Houseplanter · 27/06/2024 22:31

Yes I would. It wouldn't make me feel less of a being to do so, so why not?
It's just custom to show respect. Not a big deal to me

2dogsandabudgie · 27/06/2024 22:31

Yes I probably would. OP, why would you have a problem calling them sir or ma'am, people say this every day. I went to a museum today and the lady on the reception was calling everyone sir and madam, that's just politeness.

SlothOnARope · 27/06/2024 22:32

No, nor would I call anyone sir or lady. But to be fair I'd do everything in my power to not meet any of them.

Applepencilplant · 27/06/2024 22:33

No. I'd be polite and address them as they were meant to be addressed but no.

cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 22:33

I'd lift my cap and tug my forelock.

Snippit · 27/06/2024 22:33

meimyself · 27/06/2024 22:24

I would

Me too, we had some American colleagues over recently and they absolutely adore that we have royalty.

QuickMaff · 27/06/2024 22:33

I'd probably bow my head, wouldn't have a clue how to curtsy. I'm no royal family fan but it would feel like the done thing to me I suppose.

I'd definitely cock up on any titles though.

leeverarch · 27/06/2024 22:33

I would if I met the King, and also probably Princess Anne, but probably not the rest of them.

Edingril · 27/06/2024 22:34

If it was an organised event where it was expected yes, running into them in M&S no

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 27/06/2024 22:35

It's a no from me

Foxblue · 27/06/2024 22:35

Veritysays897 · 27/06/2024 22:29

No I wouldn't. I would greet them how I would greet anyone else. Politely. But no I wouldn't curtsey on principle.

Yep, this. It's an absolutely bizarre concept that I would have to greet someone differently because... they were born to a certain family?
Also a family that encouraged a 32 year old man to pursue a 19 year old woman, which honestly is deeply fucking weird. I don't have any respect for that.

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 27/06/2024 22:35

No, they’re no better than me. And a fair few of them are considerably less than me.