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Help with funeral music please

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Katherineryan1986 · 26/06/2024 11:13

My Mum’s funeral is soon as we are struggling to find a nice piece of music to be played as people enter the crematorium.
Mum and Dad weren't particularly ‘into’ popular music. they liked shows and musicals, but we don’t want something upbeat for the entry music. Mum was 84.
Any suggestions please?

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Changingplace · 26/06/2024 11:18

Sorry for your loss x

What about the original Judy Garland Somewhere over the Rainbow?

Morporkia · 26/06/2024 11:19

So sorry for your loss. I struggled with some of my mums funeral music, we were told that 4 was appropriate. I was happy with 2 of them but in hindsight i wish we had asked for Smile by Nat King Cole. I completely forgot it existed until I heard it about a week after the service
I hope all goes well for you and your family on the day x

MichaelFabricantsSyrup · 26/06/2024 11:22

Somewhere from west side story or memories from cats? I like you'll never walk alone from Carousel but it may be too assoc with Liverpool now.

Sorry for your loss Flowers

Objectionhearsayspeculation · 26/06/2024 11:24

I'm so sorry for your loss. What about Moon River or Memory? Flowers

BarnacleBeasley · 26/06/2024 11:28

how about 'I'll be seeing you', recorded by either Frank Sinatra, Bing Crosby, or Billie Holiday?

tryingcouchto5K · 26/06/2024 11:28

I am so sorry. Home, Michael Buble is lovely.

fridaynight1 · 26/06/2024 11:29

Sorry for you loss Flowers
‘Ave Maria’, Schubert. Although I don't think it's actually called that, we had that played that at the beginning of my Mum's funeral as we entered the crematorium. My Mum was a baptised Catholic but fell out with the church years ago so religion didn't really come into it. We chose it because it is beautiful - I don't think she would have minded.

spiderlight · 26/06/2024 11:30

So sorry for your loss. We had 'The Lark Ascending' as the entry music for my dad.

MumonabikeE5 · 26/06/2024 11:45

My dad really enjoyed animal programmes - so we used music from David attenburghs earth series throughout the service.

it was perfect for us.

maybe there is a series or film or particular director they enjoy.
Maybe that can be a starting point.

OwwOwwLowFat · 26/06/2024 11:47

We had Smile by Nat King Cole as the entry music. It's nice but not too sad

StirlingMallory · 26/06/2024 11:52

Did she like, for example, the Vicar of Dibley? The music is the Lord's My Shepherd but a nicer melody than the hymn we all sang at school. My auntie loved the music from Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy which is "Nunc Dimitis" - a beautiful piece and very appropriate for a funeral. Or "Sunrise, sunset" from Fiddler on the Roof, maybe? Condolences on your loss.

BeaRF75 · 26/06/2024 12:09

It was once suggested to us by a vicar that entry music for a (traditional) funeral should not have any lyrics. This is because the vicar is speaking as the coffin is brought into the church/crematorium. So the music is effectively background only.
Elgar's "Nimrod" is popular, but does work well at funerals.
"The Lark Ascending" is another excellent choice.
I think if you stick with popular classical music, you can't go wrong. TV themes, show tunes, pop songs etc will very much "divide the room", and possibly make you wince in years to come.

shellyleppard · 26/06/2024 12:11

Op I'm sorry for your loss. 💐🫂

LaLaLouella · 26/06/2024 12:16

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Did they like Big Band Music - we played Moonlight Serenade by the Glen Miller Orchestra at the funeral of my grandma. It's a lovely melody and neither overly happy or sad and straddles the bridge between pop music and classical.

bloodyeffinnora · 26/06/2024 12:22

Itsybitsytitsy · 26/06/2024 11:39

Time to say goodbye

this

pinkfondu · 26/06/2024 12:28

Most music is available in different arrangements, have you seen bridgerton for example. What was her Dave music tgen look for different versions x

minipie · 26/06/2024 13:14

Songbird - Fleetwood Mac would be lovely I think.

I agree that classical is good - perhaps Air on a G String (Bach) or Morning Mood (Grieg)

meimei80 · 26/06/2024 13:17

In Paradisum from Faure's Requiem.

Screamingabdabz · 26/06/2024 13:18

‘Memory’ from Cats

cleanasawhistle · 26/06/2024 13:28

Into The West ...Annie Lennox is beautiful

3peassuit · 26/06/2024 13:34

We played Judy Collins version of the Beatles classic “ In My Life “ for my mum’s funeral.

Blouson · 26/06/2024 13:35

Do you want something related to shows and musical or the usual tried and tested stuff that's being suggested?

zeibesaffron · 26/06/2024 13:38

For my Mum she requested

Mr Bojangles (the Sammy Davies Jnr version)
Bridge over troubled water
Take him home (from Les Mis the Alfie Boe version)

It was a lovely mix.

I am sorry for your loss and whatever you choose or do I am sure it will be the right decision xx

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