Stop me from messaging my obsession...

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You know the thing. Desperate to message, messaging repeatedly not good. Messaging anything probably a bad idea. Messaging what I want to definitely a bad idea (hubba hubba). Suggest entertaining things I could message if it wasn't a bad idea ...

Send them to yourself? If it's something you feel needs saying but is best left unsaid. I do this....then read it back the next day and think wtf.

Also delete the number!!!! From WhatsApp and contacts.

I've hidden them in Archive. Honestly like a teenager.

If you messaged them, do you 100% know they'd give you what you think you need that is making you want to text them?

Ooh, you are good. No, they wouldn't. Thank you.

An oldie but…

They’re just not that into you.

It hurts but you’d be used to scratch an itch and ain’t nobody got no time for that shit.

Phone down. Wine down. Disco ON!

My friend sent me a quote - if your absence doesn't affect them, your presence never mattered. True dis. Will be strong.

Yes think what is it you want from him?
Think about it carefully.
Do you feel you can be direct and ask for that whether it's meeting up or a relationship or whatever?
If so is it the right time or do you need to wait?

Hard learnt lesson...

Though tbh I'm better and they have responded. That's not to say I think you should push something that isn't good for you.

Just imagine him/her laughing at you and showing their mates, calling you a psycho..

That should do it