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HOW TO DEAL WITH A CHRONIC CHEATING HUSBAND

34 replies

MIMIEE · 22/06/2024 17:29

My husband cheats under my nose, and he will still deny it, after giving him evidence, he can't post me or the child, our anniversary.. he deleted the post an hour after posting after I forced him. I PAINED...... JUST A YEAR OF MARRIAGE AND I AM FEELING THIS WAY..

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 22/06/2024 17:30

How to deal with him? Well obviously you divorce him.

Wormfanclub · 22/06/2024 17:30

Bin him off?

GHSP · 22/06/2024 17:31

Leave him

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incessantpunditry · 22/06/2024 17:32

Turn him into a chronic cheating ex-husband.

Easipeelerie · 22/06/2024 17:32

You don’t deal with, you leave.
Once a cheat, always a cheat. Get rid.

PickAChew · 22/06/2024 17:32

Leave him.

And make sure you have an STD test.

QuestionableMouse · 22/06/2024 17:33

Divorce is remarkably effective.

skibiditoilet · 22/06/2024 17:41

Un-husband him.

murasaki · 22/06/2024 17:45

Leave.

But well done for using the correct use of chronic, as in long term. So you're smart, get out.

newnamethanks · 22/06/2024 17:45

Lose him. Neither you nor anyone else will change him so ditch him and find someone else. Or spend years

  • YEARS - feeling worse than you do now.
PrimaDoner · 22/06/2024 17:45

Dump him?

foodtoorder · 22/06/2024 17:47

Obviously you leave him.

StormingNorman · 22/06/2024 17:47

There is only one way to deal with this. Not only is he cheating but he is prioritising her/them by hiding your life.

FormerlyPathologicallyHappy · 22/06/2024 17:47

Leave him. If the fridge stops working you don’t keep it for old times sake you bin it and get a new one.

TuesdayWhistler · 22/06/2024 17:50

You leave.
.that's the only solution.

IsThisATrickQuestion · 22/06/2024 17:50

Never has my username been more apt!

There’s only one solution, if that’s what you want.

Ginkypig · 22/06/2024 17:54

You can’t change someone else’s behaviour you can only change your own.

its a very important lesson to learn in life.

this leaves you with how you are going to react.

he has short you who he is so now it’s up to you to decide if you’re willing to put up with it or not even if that means walking away and having to start again from scratch.

I know I’d rather lose everything than be stuck in that situation and I say that as someone who has literally been homeless so I know what it means when I say I’d rather lose everything.

UrbanFan · 22/06/2024 17:57

Get rid of him. Why make any more of your life miserable! Just chuck him out or leave him.

rubyslippers · 22/06/2024 17:58

MIMIEE · 22/06/2024 17:29

My husband cheats under my nose, and he will still deny it, after giving him evidence, he can't post me or the child, our anniversary.. he deleted the post an hour after posting after I forced him. I PAINED...... JUST A YEAR OF MARRIAGE AND I AM FEELING THIS WAY..

Divorce him

Star81 · 22/06/2024 17:59

Make him an ex husband

a year in is enough , you have so much life to live and don’t make this a constant of your future

LaWench · 22/06/2024 18:02

Unilaterally LTB thread.

Hold your head up high and ditch him. You can't change him, you can only control your reactions.

gardenmusic · 22/06/2024 18:07

You are asking how to deal with him.
Are you asking how to stop him? You can't.
Are you asking how to punish him? He won't care.

There is no way to deal with this other than break up or put up with it.

DracoDormiensNumquamTittilandum · 22/06/2024 18:08

I mean, divorce him obviously

TheBottomsOfMyTrousersAreRolled · 22/06/2024 18:08

LEAVE HIM. If you stay he will destroy you. It will take you years to recover. Your child will be damaged and their view of healthy relationships will be way off

NerrSnerr · 22/06/2024 18:13

You leave. That's all you can do. It won't get better.

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