Some advice needed please. Dd is going to her first proper party she is 18, autistic and has seizures that are not epileptic. Some of her friends are drinking. She wants to have a drink - she’s 18 ..I’ve suggested she takes a couple of cocktail cans and has water in between. Her friends know she has seizures. Should I speak directly to the girls parent to let her know. Now she’s 18 she’s an adult and being autistic myself I don’t know how to handle this. She is staying overnight again first time. Thank you.