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Fuming I've been made out to stop child contact!

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fuming1234 · 17/06/2024 14:56

Sorry if this is long and rambling at all but I'm so fuming!!
My ex has DD overnight and when I pick her up from his mums one of the sister-in-laws that I always got on with is has been there a few times. Out of the 3 there is it was always her who I got on with the most and even after we split we still spoke.
Anyway she's recently had a baby and now every time I see her she's blanked me completely, even ignored me when I've spoken to her. I've been letting it go but when I went to pick DD up Saturday and it happened again I kinda snapped, not nasty at all but I've had a rough week my mums got an emergency op as she may have cancer and my nan's had a stroke so I just wasn't in the mood for pettiness.
I asked her why she was ignoring me and what I'd done wrong (the other family members of ex always speak to me when they see me and there's no bad blood between they all know the relationship just wasn't going to work).
So it turns out that she was told by ex and his mum that I refused for my DD to meet her newborn and only allowed it the week after as they threaten to take me to court!! I of course told her the reason I said DD couldn't meet her newborn when he was days old was because she had tonsillitis and I didn't want it passed on to a newborn!! I could tell from her face the second she told me what had been said that I had no idea what she was talking about. I'm fuming that I've been made to look like this!! She of course now knows the truth but what other shit have they been making up?? His mum was the one that said about court apparently and I'll be honest everyone thinks the sun shines out of her arse and what she says goes. I'm so fuming!!!

I don't even know what the point of this post is, maybe just a rant 😂

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Beautifulbythebay · 17/06/2024 14:59

Surely you knew your mil wasn't really your friend?

fuming1234 · 17/06/2024 15:01

Oh yeah I've always been very wary of her even when we were together but I can't believe the shit she's made up. No wonder she didn't want to speak to me!

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