Hey everyone, I am new to this. Didn't want to come on here and do this but.... I have three children fourth on the way (unexpected). The children's dad and I are not so great as he put me through a lot of emotional, mental abuse and coercive abuse.
I have stopped him seeing our children as he called social care and said my mental health has deteriorated, and I am no longer a fit mother. Also due to him denying our 3rd and then taking that child to do a DNA without my consent or knowledge.
We are now expecting our 4th child in about 2 weeks (on the implant) and I need to know what do I do about financial contributions and setting up contact arrangements to see the children.
Am I wrong for stopping him seeing them?
What should I do moving forward?
He has already told CM he is self employed and doesn't earn much. So already the kids get peanuts now and then