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Things that you can’t quite believe were the norm

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ItsNotAShopItsAStore · 09/06/2024 19:27

What’s one of those things you think in 10/20/30 years people will go “WTF why was that acceptable?”

For me - the Jeremy Kyle show. I’m so pleased it’s off air - awful poverty porn hosted by a nasty little bully and enabled by god-complex shit stirring producers. Also who wants to watch so much shouting and arguing at 9.25am!

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alittlehopeisadangerousthing · 10/06/2024 00:17

Men innocently sharing a bed and no one thinking anything of it....aka morecambe and wise

RainbowZebraWarrior · 10/06/2024 00:23

notacooldad · 09/06/2024 23:51

Chris moyles doing a countdown to Charlotte Churches 16th when she becomes 'legal' He's a bloody creepy perv.
Chris Evans making Victoria Beckham being weighed a couple of months after she had Brooklyn. The footage is on YouTube and it is cringe to watch.

I'll also add Chris Evans and Billie Piper in there too.

Serrina · 10/06/2024 00:26

TheRomanticOutlaw · 09/06/2024 23:37

Fake astroturf type grass instead of real grass in people's gardens. Please let this die a death ASAP

Ugh I really hope so. I loathe that stuff.

Upupandaway10 · 10/06/2024 00:26

Page 3
Smoking in restaurants

RainbowZebraWarrior · 10/06/2024 00:31

PeonyAndBlushSuede · 09/06/2024 23:30

Might have already been posted but, Soccer AM when they had the “Soccerette” of a young woman/girl wearing a football top and hot pants parading around infront of a group of Middle Aged men. When they said they’re ages, if they were 18/19 all the men used to cheer and shout “Great Age!”

Vile.

And Tim L would read out her 'vital statistics' to the slobbering blokes. (All the girls were 36 /24 /36 obviously)

Bleurgh.

I hope Tim and Helen can look back at that and feel a bit ashamed for being part of such sexist shite.

NotSoHotMess24 · 10/06/2024 00:32

Just watching whatever comes on TV, rather than thinking what you want to watch, then putting it on. My 4yo can't get his head around this, whenever we stay at my parents. I have to keep reminding him "the tele chooses what programmes come on", but he looks at me very suspiciously each time - I think he thinks there's more to it than that. Nope! It's In The Night Garden or nothing.

NotSoHotMess24 · 10/06/2024 00:35

AND do you remember the "You're thick, you're thick, you're thick you are! You're thiiiiiick! You're thiiiiiick!!" song on SMTV Live when the child contestant lost a round of "Challenge Ant"??! 😂

RoobarbAndMustard · 10/06/2024 00:41

NextPhaseOfLife · 09/06/2024 20:21

In the past: strippagrams in the office 😮😮

In the future: people cutting down healthy, living trees to put in their houses for two weeks at Christmas

Or plastic Xmas trees that end up in landfill?

Upallnight2 · 10/06/2024 00:56

LivelyTraybake · 09/06/2024 19:50

When I was 15 my boyfriend was 23!!
WTF were we thinking.
I’ve got a 15 year old it doesn’t bear thinking about.

Same.. 15 and 23 😱

Coffeeinsunshine · 10/06/2024 01:02

I think how some people have just gone a bit 'meh, so what if we are giving thousands of kids chronic illness, let's continue to pretend that's ok rather than do anything about it'.

blueshoes · 10/06/2024 01:06

The (male) boss had his office with his secretary (female) sitting outside. He would press a buzzer and she would get up from her desk with a short hand pad and go into his office to take dictation. Then she would come back outside to transcribe her shorthand into a letter using her typewriter and touch typing.

blueshoes · 10/06/2024 01:13

That if you got accidentally pregnant as a teenager and decided to keep the baby, you would have to leave school.

Bournetilly · 10/06/2024 01:14

No seatbelts. I remember as a child being in the back of cars / taxis and crouching down on the floor as there were too many of us. Also as a teen (15 years ago) I would just not wear my seatbelt, a lot of people didn’t and thought nothing of it.

I can’t imagine not wearing it now, wouldn’t go anywhere without it.

MyQuaintDog · 10/06/2024 01:14

How GPs prescribed diet pills that were speed.

Swanbeauty · 10/06/2024 01:32

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Pudmyboy · 10/06/2024 01:42

DelphiniumBlue · 09/06/2024 21:55

And younger. I remember them promoting page 3 using some model's up-and-coming 16th birthday - may have been Sam Fox. Point is, the model was already well known before she was 16. Possibly she kept some of her kit on, but was still wank fodder from a very early age. Grim.

If I remember rightly, whoever she was, they couldn't show her nipples on Page 3 until she was 16, hence the countdown 🤮

oakleaffy · 10/06/2024 01:48

modgepodge · 09/06/2024 19:41

Hope you’ve got your hard hat on!!

😂

I thought that too! [But definitely agree with @Georgyporky ]

''Pull ups'' are making it too easy to wear nappies {by another name}

Toddlers used to be out of nappies far earlier- possibly as they weren't so 'comfortable' to wear when soiled, compared to modern nappies.

Cattenberg · 10/06/2024 01:48

Pudmyboy · 10/06/2024 01:42

If I remember rightly, whoever she was, they couldn't show her nipples on Page 3 until she was 16, hence the countdown 🤮

And the topless photoshoot would have taken place a few days earlier, when the model was still only 15 😔

Catsmere · 10/06/2024 01:52

Pudmyboy · 10/06/2024 01:42

If I remember rightly, whoever she was, they couldn't show her nipples on Page 3 until she was 16, hence the countdown 🤮

That was Samantha Fox. I remember Ben Elton writing in disgust about it.

Marchitectmummy · 10/06/2024 02:20

Vaping - I think will be unfathomable in the future. Untested synthetic stuff straight onto your lungs, no one is going to understand that.

Electric cars - controversial but I suspect years down the line the evils in 100 years to decompose batteries will be hard to believe.

Gettingbysomehow · 10/06/2024 02:29

Happyher · 09/06/2024 19:56

I used to watch the Black and White Minstrels show with my Grandad who was babysitting. I loved singing along. I was much too young to be aware of how wrong it was. I don’t think I was even aware they were parodying black people. It just was what it was. My kids can’t believe some of the things we watched in the 60s/70s

I remember my grandfather back in 1969 refusing to let me watch this because he said it was vulgar and disrespectful. So not all people of thar era were massive racists.

ClosedBookType · 10/06/2024 03:18

Mrsjayy · 09/06/2024 19:46

Yes I used to buy my mum and grans cigarettes, sent to the shop with a note and a fiver!

Did it make you smoke though, or were we just more trusting?

oakleaffy · 10/06/2024 03:46

Tillybud81 · 09/06/2024 22:31

Definitely all the covid crap, not being allowed to see loved ones was horrific. My dad died alone in hospital because we weren't allowed to go and see him, was the worse time of my families life and I'll never forgive the scum that made up those rules

Agreed...it was barbaric and brutal.

The terrible panic buying, and the self employed who got no support financially.

those who needed to 'shield' should have...the rest of us should have been allowed out.

I got up at 5am to go for a walk, and couldn't see my adult son - the fucking wankers who made the rules caused so much unhappiness and misery while flouting the rules themselves.

FIL died in Lockdown- Not covid, but a disease that should have had a lot more hospital attention- which he was kept waiting for.

Trusttheprocess1 · 10/06/2024 03:49

TheyreWafflyVersatile · 09/06/2024 23:10

No, we had the same! Almost all the duvets in the house would be piled on us in the back seat, then my father would drive through the darkness to our destination. It’s such a comforting memory.

The only time I came across non-duvet beds (blankets, quilts and sheets) in the 80s were at my grandmother’s house, and they seemed very old fashioned even then.

I still occasionally have to stop myself calling it a ‘continental quilt’! Some people had duvets in the 80s but in our house it was a modern thing which we only switched to after visiting relatives in Holland. Stripey (or nylon!) sheets and a candlewick bedspread before that!

oakleaffy · 10/06/2024 03:52

Justleaveitblankthen · 09/06/2024 23:35

Oh the bedding, yes!
In the 1970'S we had a sheet and a candlewick bedspread in summer.
In winter one or two thick and ancient brown blankets were added.
Also a hot water bottle.

Around 1979-1980 we had 'continental quilts.'
A flowery, fibrous top layer.
It wasn't a duvet.
They came later to our house.

Bedrooms were so COLD 🥶 when I was a child- there used to be a small electric fire high uo on the wall that was put on only if one was ill- otherwise it would be blankets, frost flowers on the inside of the windows and hot water bottles that were so cozy when hot, but were cold and solid feeling by morning.
Breath pluming in the morning air- Breakfast downstairs was at least warm.
Paraffin heaters in the hall that went ''glug'' and had that classic smell.

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