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Can your recommend a birthday poem for a grandma who hasn't been part of your life.

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Barbarbarann · 06/06/2024 14:01

My teenage son has been asked to read a poem for his grandmother's milestone birthday. We will video it and they will play it during her party. She lives on the other side of the world, so whilst my husband is going, my son and I are not as it is during school time.

My son has only met her in person three times although he has said hello to her a handful of times over facetime. She simply hasn't been part of his life. She is not an affectionate or thoughtful type of person either. She usually forgets birthdays and has never sent a gift or card to him his whole life but will occasionally send money randomly saying it is for his birthday or Christmas. It is just the way she is and we have accepted it (it doesn't mean I am happy about it! - and please don't make this post about that!)

I am at a complete loss as to what poem he could read. DH found a random grandma poem but it assumes some kind of affection or shared experiences. I cringed at every line as it was not true! I said I would find another poem. Any ideas would be helpful - it doesn't necessarily have to be a grandma poem. Perhaps there is more generic poem that would work?!

I would be so grateful for any help! Thanks.

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CassandraWebb · 07/06/2024 17:56

Barbarbarann · 07/06/2024 15:41

The request is from my SIL who is organising the party. There will be a video presentation from relatives that are overseas and can't be there. MIL was an English Literature teacher once upon a time - so yes, she likes poetry.

If she taught English lit I'd go with proper poetry then, not greetings card stuff

Barbarbarann · 11/06/2024 08:28

I have found a good enough poem. Generic enough and all about family. ‘A Family Is Like a Circle’ by Nicole M ONeil.

Thank you for the ideas.

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