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Beautiful gift needed- SIL

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sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 15:22

My SIL is taking our wedding photos in a fortnights time. She is a wedding photographer, and wants no payment, but I'd like to get her a beautiful gift to thank her. She's early 50s, ethereal and I think she is a beautiful person inside and out!

She has titian colour hair, so I often get her green accessories for birthdays and Christmas. She has sensitive skin so I tend to shy away from skincare products.

I can afford up to about £100.

Hit me with ideas!

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Dartmoorcheffy · 05/06/2024 15:39

Emerald earrings. Maybe like this

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KikiShaLeeBopDeBopBop · 05/06/2024 15:49

If £100 is what she can afford though...

ssd · 05/06/2024 15:50

Dont be so mean, the op says she can afford up to £100 and her SIL is willing to do it for nothing!

God this place sometimes

Singleandproud · 05/06/2024 15:57

There are some lovely fused glass ornaments on Etsy, I got my mum one and she loves it they come at different price points for different sizes. You can also get outdoor ones.

lovelydayIhave · 05/06/2024 16:08

Hand painted scarf.

Earrings with necklace.

What does she likes?

Scissorsisters · 05/06/2024 16:10

A robe from One Hundred Stars would be suitably ethereal.

sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 16:21

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Please don't judge how much I have to spend on this, I really think it is the thought that counts and not the price. It is a second time round wedding, in a registry office. Less than 10 people there. Entire wedding is cheap as chips. We don't really have much spare cash; I could see if I could sell some magic beans?!! SIL has offered to do it, I did offer to pay, and her response was "absolutely not, wouldn't know what to do with myself if I wasn't behind the camera".

As I said a beautiful person.

Thank you to all for the helpful suggestions... these are brilliant, and I think some may really be up her street.

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sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 16:26

Scissorsisters · 05/06/2024 16:10

A robe from One Hundred Stars would be suitably ethereal.

Your suggestion is spot on. I've just had a peruse and she would love one of these I'm sure. Thank you so much for the idea!

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GalacticalFarce · 05/06/2024 16:26

Ignore any negative responses. She obviously wants to gift the wedding photography to you. I'd offer to pay for the actual photos but it's lovely of her.

whatageareyou · 05/06/2024 16:37

Actually I was just moved by your clear love for her, how lucky she is to get you as a sister in law Smile ignore the money grabbing comments (although I have no recommendations for you!6

Nomorecoconutboosts · 05/06/2024 16:41

What a lovely thread (ignoring the one or two exceptions)
some beautiful present ideas already
All the best for your wedding day and wishing you a long and happy marriage

sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 16:43

whatageareyou · 05/06/2024 16:37

Actually I was just moved by your clear love for her, how lucky she is to get you as a sister in law Smile ignore the money grabbing comments (although I have no recommendations for you!6

I appear to have something in my eye. What a lovely comment. Thank you ☺️

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sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 16:46

Nomorecoconutboosts · 05/06/2024 16:41

What a lovely thread (ignoring the one or two exceptions)
some beautiful present ideas already
All the best for your wedding day and wishing you a long and happy marriage

And that is also much appreciated.

Neither of us have plans to wed for a third time, so this better be it 😆!

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fluffiphlox · 05/06/2024 17:00

sunlovingcriminal · 05/06/2024 16:21

Please don't judge how much I have to spend on this, I really think it is the thought that counts and not the price. It is a second time round wedding, in a registry office. Less than 10 people there. Entire wedding is cheap as chips. We don't really have much spare cash; I could see if I could sell some magic beans?!! SIL has offered to do it, I did offer to pay, and her response was "absolutely not, wouldn't know what to do with myself if I wasn't behind the camera".

As I said a beautiful person.

Thank you to all for the helpful suggestions... these are brilliant, and I think some may really be up her street.

Fair enough - second time around you probably wouldn’t want the full package of photos (not that I had that for my one and only wedding). The robes people have suggested seem to be very appropriate.

Gladespade · 05/06/2024 18:36

Scissorsisters · 05/06/2024 16:10

A robe from One Hundred Stars would be suitably ethereal.

This is a good idea, you don’t want to get an ornament because then she will feel that she has to display it whether she likes it or not.

Bignanna · 05/06/2024 18:38

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It sounds absolutely fine!

Redshoeblueshoe · 05/06/2024 18:43

Please ignore the now deleted poster. What a lovely gift from your Sil, and the robe sounds lovely

fluffiphlox · 06/06/2024 02:10

Bignanna · 05/06/2024 18:38

It sounds absolutely fine!

Well, I did then respond that in the circumstances, it sounds fine for a few photos of a second time around wedding that is going to be low-key.

AutumnCrow · 06/06/2024 02:19

Those robes/gowns/kimonos are great! Thanks for the ideas 🙂

Spencer0220 · 06/06/2024 03:25

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Actually I think that's fair. SIL has done this as a wedding gift. So it wasn't budgeted for.

How about some scarves 🧣 ? Or what about something from your fiancé that would have special significance?