I drink too much

[TheTwirlyPoos]

I'm not happy with my relationship with alcohol. Usually DH and I don't drink during the week so just Fri/Sat/Sun but I really, really look forward to it and I often end up having too much.

Is there anyway I can learn to moderate without having to go tee total? No one else would say I have a problem but Im not comfortable with the situation as it is.

I'd recommend reading what's known as "quit lit" and then you'll work out that at least a period eg 30 days sobriety will help you work out what to do next. You dont have to be dependent on alcohol to decide to stop/cut down!!

@qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty it's perfectly appropriate to comment that objectively speaking the amount of alcohol she is drinking is not a huge amount whilst also commenting that subjectively she may feel it's too much (which is what I said and other posters too). Those two things can be true at the same time.

Yes sorry, in reflection I shouldn't have said that. My first comment I advised the op about my situation as I have now gone sober but then I realised I was much worse than she was but like you said it's not really revelant the amount, it's the relationship with alcohol. Sorry for my comments but I don't think I can remove