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Eamon Holmes and Ruth Langsford divorcing

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PrincessHoneysuckle · 25/05/2024 13:39

Was v surprised.
He's a bit of a nob but I thought they looked like a happy couple

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BustyLee · 26/05/2024 17:19

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 25/05/2024 19:02

So why watch them if it made you "unconfartable??????

uncomfortable doesn’t necessarily
mean unwatchable. I am so nosy that I would be hanging onto every uncomfortable exchange.

Sassoon · 26/05/2024 17:48

SabreIsMyFave · 25/05/2024 20:30

I think quite a few couples would say this. Me and DH have had our ups and downs, and there have been times in the past I wanted to leave. He kept HIS money to himself, and treated me like shit some days for about 3-4 years. He was so selfish and self centred and did fuckall in the house, whilst I did everything, and looked after the kids, and still worked 3 days a week.

If I had been financially independent at the time/well off, I would have taken the kids and left him. But I couldn't afford to. My folks had passed away, and so had his. I had nowhere to go and didn't want a life of a single mum living in penury. I wasn't loaded living with him, but would have been far worse off leaving. I really resented him, and was quite angry with him some days. We got on OK sometimes, but he was enough of a shit to make me want to leave.

Anyway it was a rough patch and we did get through it, and have been fine for 14-15 years now thankfully. I am glad I didn't leave now, as the kids have left, we have the place to ourselves, and a good relationship. Loads in common, lots of laughs and adventures together, and I do love him. He has grown up a lot and is kind and generous and just a pleasure to be around (most of the time!) And we pool finances now, even though he earns a third more than me. But yep, I would have left then if I could.

Makes you wonder if couples who split quickly/early on in the marriage could make it work if they stuck it out through the bad times. I guess for some the bad times are just too bad! (And/or last for too long!)

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See I just don’t get why anyone would still be with a man who in your own words ‘kept HIS money to himself, and treated me like shit some days for about 3-4 years. He was so selfish and self centred and did fuckall in the house, whilst I did everything, and looked after the kids, and still worked 3 days a week.’

That’s crazy. I couldn’t forgive someone who treated the mother of his children like shit for three or four years even if the woman wasn’t me!

i would literally never regret leaving such a man.

cavalier · 26/05/2024 17:50

Lots of people have reassessed their lives since Covid
inknow a few who called off weddings just after and split sadly
🕗it’s life
They will get through it

Heyhoitsme · 26/05/2024 18:00

I've always liked him. I hope he gets his mobility back and comes home to Northern Ireland to retire.

BoringlySensible · 26/05/2024 18:01

'I was fierce hungry, so I was'

Holmes has some unpleasant history https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eamonn_Holmes#Controversies but there's a bit more.

I have vague memories of BBC day time show "Open Air" and telephone bit where viewer said something along the lines of it being a shit programme and Bob Wellings, as serious journalist, was debasing himself by appearing on it. Holmes got into a huff because of the implied criticism of himself not being serious presenter.

I also have an image burnt into my brain of Holmes in a silver bomber/puffer jacket on some Radio Ulster roadshow (?) and it not flattering the tubby chap to say the least.

I do hope he's made decent pension provision and will no longer appear on TV.

Eamonn Holmes - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eamonn_Holmes#Controversies

CocoBellaSparkle · 26/05/2024 18:47

I’ve met him through a dog rescue charity (we both have similar rescue dogs , exact same age .. his doggo is Maggie and mines a little Maddie!) so of course im
going to sound biased but I thought and still think he’s lovely (we only stay in touch on social media but he always makes the time to send me back a lovely message) my family are from his neck of the woods and ive unfortunately got a very serious illness with no cure and he’s poorly too so like I said I am biased but I have worked with and met many people in the public eye and I can hand on heart say that I think he’s one of the good guys!

Ps. I know that what goes on behind closed doors can paint a different picture but we can only view people on how we take them and they treat us and others around us imo…

Donsyb · 26/05/2024 19:24

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karottybagel · 26/05/2024 19:26

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He didnt

ThingsWillOnlyGetBetter · 26/05/2024 19:28

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At the risk of incurring your wrath, he did not.

RTT - it’s been made clear by many people ahead of you but in essence, he wanted to move to the mainland. Mrs Holmes The First did not. They were apart for many many years before he and Ruth got together.

JenniferBooth · 26/05/2024 19:44

In MN Land the second wife is always the OW

ExpatAl · 26/05/2024 20:02

I didn’t know he was ill but after a quick google see he fell and hurt his back. Must have been one hell of a fall to dislocate his pelvis too!

Donsyb · 26/05/2024 20:13

JenniferBooth · 26/05/2024 19:44

In MN Land the second wife is always the OW

Apologies, it’s not that at all - that was what I heard years ago and had always believed!

I have asked MN to remove my post

Bernardo1 · 26/05/2024 20:31

Who cares.

CestLaVie123 · 26/05/2024 20:39

Pootlepins · 25/05/2024 13:45

Odious man - what took her so long!

This!

AllyArty · 26/05/2024 20:55

I going to go against the majority and say I like him.
Well I liked him up until the Philip Schofield business, which was awful and even though I don’t like PS, at the time I just wished EH would shut up. Ruth must have been mortified/furious with him ranting about on like that about PS. I also thought it was a bit rich when he made jibes about her weight. A bit rich considering he clearly has had a weight issue in recent years. However despite living in chronic pain, he does look well at the moment.
I used to get the vibe that she thought she was better than him and she could be quite sharp with him. He seemed v supportive when she did Strictly.
Anyway none of us really know what happened so let’s hope his health improves and they are both ok in time.

soupfiend · 26/05/2024 21:05

What sort of things did he say about her that were so terrible, Ive seen them on various programmes and never noticed anything?

bluetopazlove · 26/05/2024 21:19

I always remember the day that the divvy washed his hair in vaseline around the time he worked for morning breakfast . It must have been so long ago now . The chump sat there half the morning with greasy hair with no fucking with what to do with it , what a chump .

Bbq1 · 26/05/2024 22:59

MsLuxLisbon · 25/05/2024 15:38

Mumsnet double standards strong on this thread. If a man left a sick wife, everyone would be saying what an unfeeling bastard he was and citing it as evidence of how selfish men are. I'm not saying that Ruth is a bad person for not sticking around, and in fact it might not be anything to do with his illness at all. I am just somewhat amused (although not surprised) by the difference in attitude on here between when a man does something and when a woman does the exact same thing.

Came on to say this. He's ill and she's off. Very suprised, I like both and and thought they were solid. I don't think he was ever unpleasant to her seriously, it all seemed in jest. I feel sorry for him as I know what it's like to live with pain. Ruth clearly doesn't intend to take her marriage vows seriously. Hopefully though, they will be happier apart.

JenniferBooth · 26/05/2024 23:21

Donsyb · 26/05/2024 20:13

Apologies, it’s not that at all - that was what I heard years ago and had always believed!

I have asked MN to remove my post

Hey no need to apologise Flowers

Dibbils · 26/05/2024 23:31

I’m surprised at people saying they don’t like him. I think he’s nice. Maybe it’s the Belfast banter that people find annoying 🤷‍♀️ Shame the marriage has ended ☹️

Bululu · 26/05/2024 23:45

Did not know who they were but she looks a very pretty lady. Hope she is very happy as people saying the man is unbearable.

Feelinghappytodaywow · 26/05/2024 23:48

Is he going to speak about it on his show tomorrow 😬

JenniferBooth · 27/05/2024 00:13

Apparently yes

T1Dmama · 27/05/2024 01:27

I’ve never watched them. I don’t understand why their lives are anyone else’s businesses

Swampy1958 · 27/05/2024 03:41

They're both full of themselves. Both opinionated. I've no time for them. Their divorce isn't any different to anyone else's. Not exactly scoop of the day is it?