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Eamon Holmes and Ruth Langsford divorcing

279 replies

PrincessHoneysuckle · 25/05/2024 13:39

Was v surprised.
He's a bit of a nob but I thought they looked like a happy couple

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notacooldad · 25/05/2024 22:03

So sad. They seem lovely together
I'm not seeing what your seeing!

Thepatioisready · 25/05/2024 22:06

I just came back from a cruise where I thought I'd passed him in the buffet. He was in a wheelchair so I thought it couldn't have been him.
But yes turns out it was.
Looks very young for his age despite the physical difficulties.
bit shit for both of them I'd imagine.

shearwater2 · 25/05/2024 22:07

SabreIsMyFave · 25/05/2024 20:17

She doesn't need a man! She will be absolutely fine alone. She is financially independent and solvent. Probably had enough of being Eamon and saw no reason to stay with him any longer. She doesn't need his money and fame!

A lot fucking easier than remaining married to a twat, I'd have thought.

Idontgiveashitanymore · 25/05/2024 22:21

He is awful!
im glad Ruth has finally decided to leave the arrogant d*ck

Calling · 25/05/2024 22:32

Quirkyme · 25/05/2024 19:29

@bluetopazlove

Many men leave their wives when they are sick actually. It's quite common in rich circles.

I wonder why that is.

Howbizarre22 · 25/05/2024 22:34

FlambeJones · 25/05/2024 14:51

I don't know what he's like in RL obviously but the way he comes across on TV is like a character from Father Ted. Ruth at least has a bit of a personality.

Ah FECK ARSE!! WOMENS KNICKERS!! 😂🤣🤣

drusth · 25/05/2024 22:57

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 25/05/2024 21:51

Why shouldn't she? It's on trending because other people's marriages are SO fascinating for some. It's pathetic.

Stop telling people where they can and can't post. If it's uncomfortable for you to be pulled up on gossiping then good enough.

You seem to be confused. It’s @beeonmybonnett telling other people what they can and can’t post.

And if you’d RTFT you’d see I haven’t gossiped at all.

Hopefully you’ll now feel uncomfortable at being pulled up for lying.

Hellodarknessmyfriend · 25/05/2024 23:06

SabreIsMyFave · 25/05/2024 20:30

I think quite a few couples would say this. Me and DH have had our ups and downs, and there have been times in the past I wanted to leave. He kept HIS money to himself, and treated me like shit some days for about 3-4 years. He was so selfish and self centred and did fuckall in the house, whilst I did everything, and looked after the kids, and still worked 3 days a week.

If I had been financially independent at the time/well off, I would have taken the kids and left him. But I couldn't afford to. My folks had passed away, and so had his. I had nowhere to go and didn't want a life of a single mum living in penury. I wasn't loaded living with him, but would have been far worse off leaving. I really resented him, and was quite angry with him some days. We got on OK sometimes, but he was enough of a shit to make me want to leave.

Anyway it was a rough patch and we did get through it, and have been fine for 14-15 years now thankfully. I am glad I didn't leave now, as the kids have left, we have the place to ourselves, and a good relationship. Loads in common, lots of laughs and adventures together, and I do love him. He has grown up a lot and is kind and generous and just a pleasure to be around (most of the time!) And we pool finances now, even though he earns a third more than me. But yep, I would have left then if I could.

Makes you wonder if couples who split quickly/early on in the marriage could make it work if they stuck it out through the bad times. I guess for some the bad times are just too bad! (And/or last for too long!)

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I disagree. I wouldn't tolerate or stay with any man who - as you yourself quote "treated you like shit" and in essence didn't care about you.
It's so important to be financially in a position to be able to leave if this happens.

CorpusInterruptus · 25/05/2024 23:10

They perhaps might have wanted to divorce for some time. It would have been difficult while their careers were still most successful together as a ‘TV couple.’ Obviously that time has passed now.

ABirdsEyeView · 25/05/2024 23:19

IIRC he's been quite critical of itv since he left This Morning and joined GB news. That's got to be quite difficult for Ruth seeing as she still works for itv. You'd think he'd be a bit more circumspect for her sake.

While it would be horrible to leave a person because they got sick, if a relationship was on the rocks and then one party got ill, how long is the other person supposed to stay for? Obviously, you see a person over the initial crisis, but if you're talking about long term or permanent health issues, is the other person supposed to stay for ever? Even if the relationship is dead?

I always thought he was punching tbh and I don't think he came across as very nice to her.

Marplesyrup · 25/05/2024 23:24

Nonewclothes2024 · 25/05/2024 19:32

Oh that's a shame. I like them.

Me too, I aways really enjoyed the way they presented together. I hope they both find what they want and manage to keep their relationship amicable. They’ve been together a long time.

Feelinghappytodaywow · 25/05/2024 23:28

Oh no, such a shame. I thought they were really good together before and it’s clear they were in love. I think things seemed different after all the P.S stuff and his interviews, move to Gb news etc. She’s been on Loose women less and he’s been ill. Just all seems to have collapsed, v sad.

SpicyMoth · 25/05/2024 23:32

Awh that's so sad!
I always thought they were a fab couple and always loved them both - super surprised!

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 25/05/2024 23:37

drusth · 25/05/2024 22:57

You seem to be confused. It’s @beeonmybonnett telling other people what they can and can’t post.

And if you’d RTFT you’d see I haven’t gossiped at all.

Hopefully you’ll now feel uncomfortable at being pulled up for lying.

You asked that poster why she clicked on the thread. That's the standard put down/silencing tactic used. HTH.

drusth · 25/05/2024 23:41

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 25/05/2024 23:37

You asked that poster why she clicked on the thread. That's the standard put down/silencing tactic used. HTH.

That was in response to her trying to put down/silence another poster with ‘This is private and nobody’s business but theirs.’, for simply asking what happened. HTH.

Grennwyld · 25/05/2024 23:44

Their marriage had always seemed a bit of a sham to me. I used to watch them on This Morning and they used to talk about their seperate living rooms and seperate Christmas decorations. I felt like Ruth protested a bit too much about their life and he was just horrid. I really wasn’t surprised, it seemed to me that their lives have been seperate for a long time. I’m surprised it took them this long to make it official.

beeonmybonnett · 26/05/2024 00:06

drusth · 25/05/2024 22:57

You seem to be confused. It’s @beeonmybonnett telling other people what they can and can’t post.

And if you’d RTFT you’d see I haven’t gossiped at all.

Hopefully you’ll now feel uncomfortable at being pulled up for lying.

I never once told anyone what they can and can’t post. I just said I don’t think it’s right to speculate on the reasons behind the breakdown of someone’s marriage.

Hermione7 · 26/05/2024 00:31

Literally would struggle to find something less interesting

AmelieTaylor · 26/05/2024 00:43

Hermione7 · 26/05/2024 00:31

Literally would struggle to find something less interesting

@Hermione7

so instead of scrolling past a thread that apparently you're not interested in, you felt compelled to post on it? To what end? To look superior?

IndependentUndefeated · 26/05/2024 01:15

I'm surprised to see they are the same age, I thought she was younger.

JadeandGreen · 26/05/2024 01:41

I think Eamonn has quite an old man mindset and Ruth has a younger outlook, and possibly when he became ill he became even more so and she's just had enough. It can really drag you down when your partner is negative and pessimistic about life, which I feel this is the vibe Eamonn gives off, and you are still positive and vibrant, as I think Ruth is.

Rollinghilly · 26/05/2024 07:54

Hellodarknessmyfriend · 25/05/2024 23:06

I disagree. I wouldn't tolerate or stay with any man who - as you yourself quote "treated you like shit" and in essence didn't care about you.
It's so important to be financially in a position to be able to leave if this happens.

I know several couples who pushed through and are glad they did and generally it’s through a period where their husbands are doing the ‘cranky old man’ thing.

I’d push through to a point but if it wasn’t getting better, that would be that.

Owl9to5 · 26/05/2024 07:56

JadeandGreen · 26/05/2024 01:41

I think Eamonn has quite an old man mindset and Ruth has a younger outlook, and possibly when he became ill he became even more so and she's just had enough. It can really drag you down when your partner is negative and pessimistic about life, which I feel this is the vibe Eamonn gives off, and you are still positive and vibrant, as I think Ruth is.

I bet this is it. And he's probably so grumpy she can't take any more.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 26/05/2024 08:20

I always think of people split up at this point it must be really bad.

BirthdayRainbow · 26/05/2024 08:48

Apparently she felt more carer than wife and he is furious.

@MrsPelligrinoPetrichor I am 52 and have left my h last year after a 27 year relationship. Of course it is always bad. People don't generally leave any relationship of substance over a whim.