If someone can to visit your house, say once a year, maybe twice or three times max
And every time they did, they had a present with them for your dog. But not your 2 young DC
Would it bother you? The person in question has 2 DC of a similar age of their own
We don't really visit them for logistical reasons so can't give a comparison there
They are otherwise lovely to DCs and generous if they come along to a birthday party etc