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Money you may as well have set on fire

709 replies

Snickernoodle · 24/05/2024 21:55

Like you literally got NOTHING for it.
DD wanted to go to drama club for ages. Loved the first term. Asked if she wanted to do the second term. No sooner had a I sent the money across she came and told me she didn't want to do it and has been moaning and tantruming about it ever since. £90 completely wasted. I'm feeling pretty salty about it atm. Help me feel better about it with your wasted money stories?

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jcr89 · 26/05/2024 18:50

Our wedding. Still married but we both had D&V all day. Couldn't eat our wedding food; managed to nibble on a bread roll and some carrot sticks but had to halt the speeches to go and be sick.

I feel like I look drained and dug up in most of our photos - I've only ever had one on display in the house where we're both looking down at the ground 😂. DH spent most of the evening outdoors trying to get fresh air and I did my best to bop around and make the most of it in the evening.

People keep asking us if we'll do anything for our 10 year anniversary party to make up for it but, given our track record with illness & events, that'd be a waste too!

JoBrandsCleaner · 26/05/2024 18:52

Our (40 feet by 20 feet) top of the garden needed flagged over. I got a couple of quotes (one from a gypsy fella) considering all the things people say about these people that I decided to ignore, as I’m originally from Penrith and any that I’ve known have been such decent people. Anyway £8000 later and he’s flagged it over but used them cheap ones that aren’t really meant to be used for a patio, they’re just for under sheds and greenhouses and stuff, I just can’t believe it. To have used the proper decent materials would have been a case of and extra £300 or something which we would have happily paid instead of effectively paying £8000 for a giant mess that’s gonna have to be paved over with something else now.

bobster31 · 26/05/2024 18:59

Paid privately for my daughter's orthodontic treatment as the waiting list was so long. Cost us thousands and much time taken off work to attend appointments. Turned 17, wore her retainers for a bit then stopped wearing them at all (against the advice) and her teeth have gone back exactly the way they were.

Whostolemymojo · 26/05/2024 19:13

Too many to mention

40plusmama · 26/05/2024 19:20

pinksquash13 · 24/05/2024 22:37

£100 odd on baby ballet then realised it was shit and so barely attended.

Oh no I've just signed up for a trial 😫🙈

Fakirek · 26/05/2024 19:21

I bought something from Next which I ended up returning. I used a gift card to pay for it. I realised yesterday that Next posted the refund giftcard to my old address… That’s £50 I won’t see again 🤦

GrannyRose15 · 26/05/2024 19:27

Spent £700 on fixing a fence after a delivery driver ran into it

PotatoPudding · 26/05/2024 19:28

I spent the best part of 20 years getting pissed 5 nights a week and smoking 30 a
day. I feel sick when I think of how much money I must have gone through.

GrannyRose15 · 26/05/2024 19:28

Only for another delivery driver to destroy it a month later.

68User · 26/05/2024 19:28

£70 on a guitar beginning of lockdown thinking we’d all learn. Never used.

Husband bought a watch online that came from China. Worth £70ish and cost £25 to send back. Also some other rubbish from FB that would cost more to return than it’s worth.

A top recently that I have worn but decided it doesn’t really suit me.

A few parking tickets over the years too.

ErinBell01 · 26/05/2024 19:28

AlltheFs · 25/05/2024 05:55

I pay £9k a year for a pony I don’t ride and who has been lame more than sound for 16 years.

I feel your pain! Daughter currently does this. And I kept her first horse for years when she was at Uni, then away working, then the horse was too decrepit to ride, but regularly incurring vet's bills.

JustMeAndTheFish · 26/05/2024 19:31

My very elderly cat atm. She’s sweetie but has become SO fussy that I’m considering bypassing her altogether and just putting the sachets in the bin 😁

MissDianaBarry · 26/05/2024 19:40

@MrsAvocet - me too. My feet are size 1 and are now getting a bit too wide for small shoes. I have so many pairs that might fit but don't fit and are uncomfortable. I live in kids trainers and ankle boots.

LostNFoundSV · 26/05/2024 19:41

£12k goodwill deposit on a house I couldn’t proceed with. Try not to think about it 😳

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 26/05/2024 20:18

ObsidianTree · 25/05/2024 04:43

Have thought of another...

First house bought many years ago when I was much younger and stupider, after two nears when we needed to remortgage, rates were getting a bit high and my mum had been saying that her mortgage got up to 12% back in whatever year... I panicked and felt we had to fix at whatever rate we could get before it went up again. Remortgaged at 5.75% for 5 years. Well a few months later the prices went down and down and down then stayed that way until recently! We were stuck on that rate while the base rate was super low. Remember mentioning to my mum why we fixed and she said oh the rates will never go that high again!!!

Did this too, except got a 10 year fixed rate!

AlinaRawlings · 26/05/2024 20:19

ashiningbeaconinspace · 25/05/2024 06:43

£20000 on a brand new Smart ForTwo electric car. At under 3000 miles it stopped charging reliably and an electric car which doesn't charge is not a lot of use. It's spent the last 9 months back at the dealership while I wait for a decision from the motor ombudsman on a refund. Still having to pay for the insurance.

Ours took 17 months with the motor ombudsman which we subsequently won. Mercedes engine packed in at 24k miles but because we were 62 days over the service they refused to fix. Car sat there for nearly 2 years in the end. It was 26k to fix the vehicle with a brand new engine (which they paid) however we paid 1k a month to finance whilst all this was going on. We should have put a second hand engine in for around 9k then just had Mercedes reimburse us when we eventually won. At least then we’d have had use of the car. We sold it as soon as it was fixed so essentially around 20k down the drain paying for a car that we couldn’t even drive. Never. Ever. Again.

Jeannie88 · 26/05/2024 20:56

shiningstar2 · 24/05/2024 22:45

Walking machine: me: £850
Used twice.
Cycling machine: DH: £150
Used about 5 times.
Even more annoying they take up every inch of space in the spare room. We keep having the talk about getting rid ...but then decide we are 'definitely' going to use so just keep them 🤔😁

Lol same here! Allsorts of different machines which have become great for drying clothes on! New house, new equipment, mission to use! Xx

JT12 · 26/05/2024 21:12

Money spent on college fees in the US when my son didn't end up completing his degree 😢

Saltypsych85 · 26/05/2024 21:58

Husband got a peloton… need I say more?

mum2jakie · 26/05/2024 22:04

£20 on sandals that have broken a week later. Buy cheap, buy twice...

ClosedBookType · 26/05/2024 22:49

gmgnts · 25/05/2024 08:35

Ashamed/furious that I just got scammed out of £78 by one of these 'helping' sites when I renewed my driving license. I'm usually very tech savvy and careful but I was in a hurry and this site was came top when I googled the dvla and was absolutely convincing. I didn't know it's free to renew. Feeling stupid. Beware of the passport and dvla fake sites.

It’s £14 to renew, but I’m sure that I paid more than that too

Whoslaughingnowhahaha · 26/05/2024 22:56

Personalised number plate. The only reason I still have it on the car is to get my moneys worth. I wish I didn't bother getting one in the first place.

Trishthedish · 26/05/2024 22:56

AlltheFs · 25/05/2024 05:55

I pay £9k a year for a pony I don’t ride and who has been lame more than sound for 16 years.

Same. We had my daughter’s horse on livery for 11 years over £50,000 for his retirement. Bless him he was 37 when he died, clearly looked after him too well.

slavetothenhs · 26/05/2024 23:04

Owning horses. A literal financial bonfire, plus they are ungrateful, freeloading, opinionated mardy cowbags.....

SirAlfredSpatchcock · 26/05/2024 23:21

GrannyRose15 · 26/05/2024 19:28

Only for another delivery driver to destroy it a month later.

Did their employers not pay for the damage?