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CurlewKate · 17/05/2024 16:24

A friend' relative died a week ago today. The first available crematorium slot is 4 June!! Is that a normal wait?

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olderbutwiser · 17/05/2024 16:26

Yes. Although they might find weekends are less booked up for some reason - we got a Saturday slot for Mum a good fortnight before a weekday slot and it was far more convenient for everyone

shellyleppard · 17/05/2024 16:26

Unfortunately yes.....took nearly a month before my mum's funeral. She died on the 19th November and the funeral was on the 18th December. Sending hugs x

MaisyMary77 · 17/05/2024 16:26

I’m not sure, I think it may depend on where you live? DM lived in London, we had to wait 4 weeks.

misszebra · 17/05/2024 16:26

unless they are an Orthodox Jew yes, its very normal

TinyYellow · 17/05/2024 16:29

Completely normal. Three weeks is a pretty good timeframe from death to funeral date, it’s often longer if they take forever doing a postmortem.

Rebusmyfire · 17/05/2024 16:33

Yes. A crematorium covers a wide locality so 3-4 weeks is pretty standard.

Was a 6 week wait for a Uncle but that was just as we were released from Covid testructions and everything was messed up

damnbratz · 17/05/2024 17:25

My dad died on 17th March and the funeral was 24th April. I was shocked, not so long ago there used to be a week between death and funeral. It was such a long wait and felt like we were in limbo.

Adoptioncontact · 17/05/2024 17:27

We lost my dad on 1st August, the first date available for the cremation was 31st August.

Pedro3124 · 26/08/2024 20:21

Hi. Has anyone had to deal with the disappointment of a poor attendance at a funeral ? My FIL s funeral is up and coming in about 10 days time ,and although there wasn't a huge turnout ,the numbers have gone from 25 to 14. My wife is quite upset to say the least.

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