Divorced man in his 50s, was married for nearly 30 years, adult children.
One of the earliest personal things he told me about himself was that people often tell them they thought he was gay, but he's definitely not, just very comfortable with his sexuality.
Now, to my eyes he's a very masculine man, attractive in a quite fit for his age, dresses a bit younger than some middle aged men, but nothing too obvious kind of way.
He's not a man's man, no interest in sport, lots of female friends, works predominantly with women and can be "one of the girls", but I don't see him as effeminate.
Anyway since then, he's "joked" several times about being in touch with his feminine side, comfortable with his sexuality, loving Eurovison, being a Harry Styles fan 🤣
So much that now I'm starting to wonder....?