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Just how comfortable with ĥis sexuality is he?

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Confortableorwhat · 15/05/2024 17:37

Divorced man in his 50s, was married for nearly 30 years, adult children.

One of the earliest personal things he told me about himself was that people often tell them they thought he was gay, but he's definitely not, just very comfortable with his sexuality.

Now, to my eyes he's a very masculine man, attractive in a quite fit for his age, dresses a bit younger than some middle aged men, but nothing too obvious kind of way.

He's not a man's man, no interest in sport, lots of female friends, works predominantly with women and can be "one of the girls", but I don't see him as effeminate.

Anyway since then, he's "joked" several times about being in touch with his feminine side, comfortable with his sexuality, loving Eurovison, being a Harry Styles fan 🤣

So much that now I'm starting to wonder....?

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Confortableorwhat · 15/05/2024 17:58

Nothing to see here?

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MotherFeministWoman · 15/05/2024 18:06

Nothing you listed will tell you either way. The only thing you need to know is weather he wants to fuck other men.

Stressyfab · 15/05/2024 18:09

I Usually find when people have to state that they’re this or that, they tend to be the opposite 😂
Maybe he’s secretly a Harry Styles and Eurovision hater but thinks that’s not the right thing to say? Have you expressed a love for either and he’s trying to impress you?

Confortableorwhat · 15/05/2024 18:12

Stressyfab · 15/05/2024 18:09

I Usually find when people have to state that they’re this or that, they tend to be the opposite 😂
Maybe he’s secretly a Harry Styles and Eurovision hater but thinks that’s not the right thing to say? Have you expressed a love for either and he’s trying to impress you?

Yes, that how I feel. Like when someone tells you're they're honest, they're almost certainly not 🤣

No, I'm no Harry or Eurovison fan, he's laughing at himself when he says it.

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Porageeater · 15/05/2024 18:53

I suppose if it’s something that has often been asked or told by other people he might just be trying to preempt you thinking it?

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