To cut a long story short, 2 daughters, crap ex, sees them every 2 weeks, every time they come back from his they are full of stories about how girls should do XYZ or like XYZ or have long hair, look better with make up, or X person is fat and won't get a boyfriend, or Y person is ugly due to.....
You get the picture.
I need to make him realise how damaging this is for our girls, is there book about raising daughters, or the damage this shit can do to them?
I've told him, and he tells me I'm full of shit, and that's what the world is like. This is the only way I can potentially get him to see the damage he's doing.
I have 2 older girls who are very individual and the little ones get positive messages here from us for 12/13 days, then it's all undone after a day or two.
Any help will be very appreciated.