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Can't stop thinking of this kind lady

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thisisasurvivor · 29/04/2024 18:29

We were shopping earlier and a lovely woman from the Philippines stopped to say hello to me and my two daughters

She started to cry as she said she missed her children and mine are of a similar age
She won't see them for 3 years now (they are 2 and 6) it is very expensive to fly home

She paid for some small treats for my kids and came out after us to say goodbye

I made the stupid mistake of asking how often she can fly back, she can't

It will be three years until she sees them
I feel like it put my foot in it and it upset her when I asked this

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Potnoodlesarentantisocial · 29/04/2024 18:37

You couldn't have known when you asked, don't beat yourself up.

My heart goes out for that lady though 😔 ❤️ Must be so tough.

DecidedlyAverage · 29/04/2024 18:56

You did a nice thing by letting her buy the treats for your girls.
Some people would have made a fuss and denied her of that pleasure.
I'm sure it made her happy to be allowed to do that, so take that away from your encounter with her today OP.

thisisasurvivor · 29/04/2024 18:58

Hope she never has to leave them again

My heart went out to her

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Solgrass · 29/04/2024 18:58

Well it brought her a little comfort seeing your daughters and buying them a Little something.
It’s very sad, but it’s not that uncommon for many around the world to move for work and send money home.
Shows how lucky we are in the UK

thisisasurvivor · 29/04/2024 19:01

Solgrass · 29/04/2024 18:58

Well it brought her a little comfort seeing your daughters and buying them a Little something.
It’s very sad, but it’s not that uncommon for many around the world to move for work and send money home.
Shows how lucky we are in the UK

We are so lucky

In so many ways

Imagine missing the key years as they grow up 💔💔💔💔

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