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Kids of the 70's/80's - what did you do playing out that would horrify people today?

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:15

I grew up in a pit village and we'd play on the pit tip, including round the slurry pond. We'd chuck sticks in and try to get them round the other side, we'd climb up and slide down the tip mounds. I only remember getting chased off once, it's bonkers to think it was all mostly open and unguarded!

There was a big open sewer? Storm? Drain or massive pipe with a grill across it that had been prised off and we used to go in there. I don't really know what it was, just that it was metal and massive and a bit wet and smelly and you could crawl quite a way in.

An old pit tip that time had grassed over but was not all that stable and had a chunk out the side of it. We called it "holey hill" and would sit in the carved out bit and make it bigger.

There was a stream with a big tree next to it. We had a rope tied round a branch and a stick to turn the rope into a swing. One side of the stream had a really steep banking and we had a massive knife and took it in turns to swing as high as possible and stick the knife into the banking. The next person had to swing to get the knife and then swing to put the knife higher up the banking. The winner was the person who got it so high nobody else was able to retrieve it.

Gathering hay from the fields and making a massive pile under a tree (different tree) then climbing the tree and jumping off it onto the hay. Bonus points for fancy jumps.

Playing chicken across the new road (it's still called the new road even though it's been there 40 years now and the old road's been buried for 30)

Climbing onto the row of garages at the bottom of the estate and jumping from one roof to the next.

God, so many!

I was chatting with my mum the other day and was reminiscing about all these games when I noticed my mum had gone absolutely silent.

She had no clue what I'd been doing all that time. She'd assumed I was just in the park. (Nobody played in the park. Who wants proper swings and slides when you've got pit tops, slurry ponds and knife games 🤣)

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Belfastchild74 · 19/04/2024 20:42

Only just luck that many of us in this thread made it to adulthood! 🤯

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 19/04/2024 20:45

My mum spent many a happy hour making patterns from the broken glass in the gutter!

augustusglupe · 19/04/2024 20:46

All when we were between 8 and 10 years old…

Scrumping from gardens and not caring if we were seen, it was more exciting if they ran after us.

Hitchhiked a ride home once, we were about 3 miles from home, we could’ve walked but thought it would be fun. It was me, my friend and her little brother.
The man who picked us up took us the wrong way. We were heading to the motorway and all of a sudden he pulled over, turned round and said to us he was teaching us a lesson and never to hitch hike again. He drove us back to our village and let us out.
Maybe he was good, or bad and had a change of heart. Who knows, but I never ever did it again.

Playing by the canal and on the locks.

Playing on a hill we called ‘cardboard hill’. Tearing down on big pieces of cardboard, trying to stop before we hit the hedge. The main road was the other side of the hedge.

Playing in the air raid shelters

Me & my friend used to play at something we called slop dosh. We found loads of cement like stuff and red goo in my one of my Dads ‘many’ sheds and we’d mix it all up and pretend we had a fish & chip shop.
Thinking back it was probably toxic. God knows what it was. But we had fun.

Walking for miles accross fields, getting home about 9 at night on a summer evening. So thirsty, downing pints of orange squash.
Brilliant days. This was all early 70s.

Xylenegy You re-enacting the scenes 😄

VikingLady · 19/04/2024 20:50

It's largely different threats now, plus a greater focus on parenting as a skill. In the 80s when I was a kid, parenting wasn't anything you put deep thought and philosophies into - you just had kids as part of your family, and you behaved according to what you'd grown up with yourself. No research involved (I've discussed this with my parents quite a bit).

We did watch the safety videos at school, and almost no one used kites near power lines or played on railway tracks, and we'd send a teenager into the substation to fetch lost balls (as if that was safer!), and I'm still mildly traumatised by the video of poor Robbie who lost his feet on the railway tracks! We didn't tend to swim in the canal because we had a headteacher who made a very dramatic production of telling us about a kid he knew who drowned doing that (I now wonder whether that was true or just to put us off).

There was a kid who died playing chicken, just before I was born. I'm aware of no one else who was injured though.

RosaBaby2 · 19/04/2024 21:05

We had an old wheelchair that we messed around in, seeing who could fly down the hill fastest. Also various other make shift go karts etc

Raced round the fields on sit on lawnmower with some people in the trailer.

Dances around the fire chanting like a cult. Blew up aerosols on the campfire, one went straight through the rent when it came back down.

Went out riding horses or on the bikes all day picking brambles etc without anyone knowing where we were.

Swimming in the beck without adult supervision!

Had horse poo/mud fights.

Played with a blowtorch, band saw - torturing barbies mainly.

Build dens, hammer, nails, axe, saw up the trees.

Trampolining without an enclosure 😂

And much more. Loved my childhood.

queenofcruises · 19/04/2024 21:08

we used to play a game called fox off! it involved running away and hiding until you were found. we could go for miles.. we climbed on garage roofs, into allotment sheds, under cars...

saveforthat · 19/04/2024 21:08

When I was about 9 we used to knock on neighbours doors to ask if we could take their babies out for a walk in the pram and they used to let us.

Menomeno · 19/04/2024 21:09

Notthebestidea · 19/04/2024 19:56

@IncompleteSenten compared to the thread on what 90’s teens got up to (which all seemed to be about sex at a young age with older men and pervert teachers) this thread sounds very wholesome !

You’re forgetting that us 80s kids were also the 90s teenagers!!

Bluepetergarden · 19/04/2024 21:10

I don’t remember anyone walking their dogs, they just used to let them out to play with us raggy arsed kids

Menomeno · 19/04/2024 21:17

Bluepetergarden · 19/04/2024 21:10

I don’t remember anyone walking their dogs, they just used to let them out to play with us raggy arsed kids

It was hard to find a street that didn’t have a couple of shagging dogs on the corner back then.

ElizabethVonArnim · 19/04/2024 21:24

Jumping off the end of the pier, climbing in and out of the electricity substation, harassing people with weird names from a phone box. We were horrible kids!

Elsewhere123 · 19/04/2024 21:45

Setting fire to a tractor tyre and filling the whole valley with black smoke.

LolliesInTheSun · 19/04/2024 21:56

I remember when me and my friend were about 8/9 we decided to ‘run away from home’. We packed bags of ‘essentials’ (crisps, sweets, favourite cuddly toy) and left home in the morning and traipsed around the streets of London aimlessly.

By the time the sun was setting and it was getting cold we had a change of heart and went back home. Far from weeping into their tissues and calling the police, neither of our parents had even noticed we had ‘run away’. My mum was a bloody teacher, for God’s sake! No safeguarding in those days, clearly. .

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 22:02

Menomeno · 19/04/2024 21:09

You’re forgetting that us 80s kids were also the 90s teenagers!!

Oh yeah!!
I haven't seen that thread but I could tell some stories about the 90s too Blush

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 22:04

LolliesInTheSun · 19/04/2024 21:56

I remember when me and my friend were about 8/9 we decided to ‘run away from home’. We packed bags of ‘essentials’ (crisps, sweets, favourite cuddly toy) and left home in the morning and traipsed around the streets of London aimlessly.

By the time the sun was setting and it was getting cold we had a change of heart and went back home. Far from weeping into their tissues and calling the police, neither of our parents had even noticed we had ‘run away’. My mum was a bloody teacher, for God’s sake! No safeguarding in those days, clearly. .

I ran away once. I was 9, 10, maybe younger. Probably younger actually

I went to the bottom of the street and sulked on a patch of grass for what felt like hours.

Then I got bored and went home and mum hadn't even realised I'd gone anywhere!

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tangycheesythings · 19/04/2024 22:15

saveforthat · 19/04/2024 21:08

When I was about 9 we used to knock on neighbours doors to ask if we could take their babies out for a walk in the pram and they used to let us.

Oh god I just remembered we used to do this! I'd totally and completely forgotten about that! 😄

Franticbutterfly · 19/04/2024 22:25

Paddling in what I now know to be a dangerous reservoir, "riding" horses in fields, strawberry picking on fruit farms without paying...loads of things. I feel sorry my DDs they've barely ever left the house by comparison!

Twwodoorsaway · 19/04/2024 22:25

We used to play by the local river, in an area that had several bridges crossing the water. We would walk along the outer edge of the bridge, so could fall into the water easily. I was a teenager in the 70s.

One summer we were having a picnic near the river and were approached by a man who said he was from Japan (I think) and was recording Scottish voices for his school pupils back home. We spent what felt like hours with him recording our voices. I’m sure we never told our parents. I think it genuinely was innocent, there was no issues with him but in later years I did used to think it could have been much worse.

We also did long bike rides to picnic in the wilds, our parents had no idea where we were, although we always had an emergency 10p for the phone!

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 22:29

I remember when it used to be 2p. Back when the 2 pence pieces were huge and you could get 2 chews for a halfpenny.

When the calls went to 10p my mum moaned for ages.

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Angelswatchingoverme · 19/04/2024 22:37

This thread is bringing so many happy memories back!

When I used to go round my friend house we would get the phone book and look up the people on our street and prank call them before putting the phone down 😂

Playing 'chicken' which involved running into the road when cars were coming😲

One boy at the end of our road had a thing about matches and was always starting little fires but the worst was when he managed to acquire some petrol (don't ask😅) and he poured it around the perimeter of the park and set it on fire, luckily nobody was on the park at the time🤣

My poor mum had no idea what I got up to and would be turning in her grave if she knew! I wouldn't change a thing though, oh the joys of being a kid in the 80s.

elliejjtiny · 19/04/2024 22:39

Sitting on someone's skateboard on the street, being given a push and it would be a competition to see how far you went. Jumping from one bank to another across a stream. The stream was shallow but the bank was high, about 5ft I think so it was a big drop for a 9 year old if you slipped. I used to get so scared if I looked down before jumping.

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 22:42

TimeInBlue · 19/04/2024 20:36

My parents were as ‘neglectful’ as the next but we knew we were loved and we had a very happy childhood all the same.
It’s called freedom and ‘doing it safely with parental input’ is not quite the same.

Nah, it’s been called ‘freedom’ to make shit parents feel ok about it and others stupidly believe it through their aged rises tinted glasses. It also lets them get digs in about kids today. 🙄

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 22:45

*rose

Mum2jenny · 19/04/2024 22:47

Empty hay barns, roof top jumping, cycling to distant locations, playing in rivers, just being away from home from early morning till early evening wA just normal

Inlimboin50s · 19/04/2024 22:53

Climbing up the oak tree by the main road and when a car came one of us would fall out and lie on the ground and pretend to be dead.

Sneaking out the house when parents were asleep and meeting some village boys who had a quad bike. Riding all around the villages in the middle of the night,my friend and I hanging off the back.

Finding an old mattress in the village hall carpark and dragging it to someones garden and leaving it there. I thought this was hilarious.