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Kids of the 70's/80's - what did you do playing out that would horrify people today?

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:15

I grew up in a pit village and we'd play on the pit tip, including round the slurry pond. We'd chuck sticks in and try to get them round the other side, we'd climb up and slide down the tip mounds. I only remember getting chased off once, it's bonkers to think it was all mostly open and unguarded!

There was a big open sewer? Storm? Drain or massive pipe with a grill across it that had been prised off and we used to go in there. I don't really know what it was, just that it was metal and massive and a bit wet and smelly and you could crawl quite a way in.

An old pit tip that time had grassed over but was not all that stable and had a chunk out the side of it. We called it "holey hill" and would sit in the carved out bit and make it bigger.

There was a stream with a big tree next to it. We had a rope tied round a branch and a stick to turn the rope into a swing. One side of the stream had a really steep banking and we had a massive knife and took it in turns to swing as high as possible and stick the knife into the banking. The next person had to swing to get the knife and then swing to put the knife higher up the banking. The winner was the person who got it so high nobody else was able to retrieve it.

Gathering hay from the fields and making a massive pile under a tree (different tree) then climbing the tree and jumping off it onto the hay. Bonus points for fancy jumps.

Playing chicken across the new road (it's still called the new road even though it's been there 40 years now and the old road's been buried for 30)

Climbing onto the row of garages at the bottom of the estate and jumping from one roof to the next.

God, so many!

I was chatting with my mum the other day and was reminiscing about all these games when I noticed my mum had gone absolutely silent.

She had no clue what I'd been doing all that time. She'd assumed I was just in the park. (Nobody played in the park. Who wants proper swings and slides when you've got pit tops, slurry ponds and knife games 🤣)

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Soigneur · 19/04/2024 13:20

Many, but the one that really stands out is everyone having penknives - including at school where one teacher always told us to sharpen pencils with a penknife as it was much better than using a pencil sharpener. Now even my DS's scouts group don't allow knives, it's absolutely ridiculous.

jay55 · 19/04/2024 13:21

We took plastic bags and trays and slid down the gravel mounds at abandoned gravel pits.

sockarefootwear · 19/04/2024 13:24

Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 13:07

S*eances

Knock and run (🤣)

Prank calls*

I got a book out of the library about fortune telling (aged about 13) and it had a chapter on tarot reading with instructions on how to do it with standard playing cards. So I went through a phase of reading the cards for my friends. The cards quite often predicted that my friends would indeed marry and have children with the boy that they currently had a crush on. As far as I know, none of these marriage predictions ever came true! We once did makeshift ouija board in the woods a few times (with similarly predictable questions and answers). Again, with the aid of the library book.

No one ever questioned why I repeatedly took the book out of the library and when we got bored with reading the cards it was just quietly forgotten. I think if a teenager did this nowadays they would be remembered for ever as the weirdo and quite possibly be sent for some sort of counselling at school.

NannyR · 19/04/2024 13:24

As a five/six year old, I was allowed to play unsupervised with friends on a nearby waste ground - I have distinct memories of playing hide and seek in an old fridge, the thought makes my blood run cold when I think about what could have happened. My parents were not neglectful or bad in any way, it was just how children played in those days.

Irridescantshimmmer · 19/04/2024 13:26
  1. Buy cigs and toffees - obviously cigs were for adults and I knew smoking is a filthy habit then and know it's an even filthier habit now !!!!( I have ALWAYS been a none smoker )All shop keepers knew me and my parents so they knew the only thing I was interested in was sweets, I was aged 6 years +

  2. Walk to school and back on my own aged 7+ School did not allow kids under 7 to walk to school and back without an adult, more than likely due. to the Moors murders which occurred not to long before this time. Our headmaster used to warn us in assembly, to stay away from strangers, not to get into a strangers car, even if they offered sweets and to stay away from the railway lines.

  3. Play out in the street with other kids for hours on end after school, there was no expensive aftercare for kids then, I believe societies expectations of kids was higher in those days because kids had to behave so me and my friends did. It was not difficult, I coped pretty well.

dudsville · 19/04/2024 13:26

There was an olive Grove nearby and some deep "caves" under some of them which we'd turn into forts. There was a fast canal without any railing that we used to ride our bikes along. I remember breaking into a empty house a few times. Climbing trees. Going to the school play ground on the weekends. Not to much that was really that bad, but it was all without parents having a clue where we were.

LauderSyme · 19/04/2024 13:28

Yes knock and run, we called it 'knock down ginger', no idea why. Yes silent prank calls but once the answerer said "I know that's you Lauder" so I stopped.

I lived near a little local train station and we built a camp under the platform and you had to climb onto the tracks to get in and out. We used to sit in there with the train wheels coming and going a few feet away.

When I was 11 or 12 I missed the train one time and walked a mile along the tracks to get home.

Gosh I would be so scared and livid if ds did any of these!

Mymiddlenameiscynic · 19/04/2024 13:29

We used to climb to the top of the enormous marquee that was put up each year for the local flower show and slide down the 'roof' (god knows how we used to get up there!)
I used to ride on the back of the village boys motorbikes, ride on the back of tractors when working on the local farm, ride horses bare back and play on the local building site.

I have no idea how we all survived to adulthood! But by god we had an amazing childhood. I really feel for the poor kids of today that will know nothing of the freedom to do dangerous things when young.

Yes, I am well aware it was dangerous (I did get a few injuries, cuts that needed stitches, black toenails, broken toe) but you learned from your mistakes.

Meadowfinch · 19/04/2024 13:29

Swimming in the mill pond. Scrumping apples and playing in the barns and stables of a derelict farm.

Sitting on a bridge over a railway trying to drop pebbles down the funnel of the diesel engines passing underneath. Hunting for lizards on the railway embankment.

Mishmashs · 19/04/2024 13:33

We played a lot on hale bales. The big cylinder shaped ones not the oblong ones. Climbing on jumping off and trying our hardest to jump from one to another. One time they were piled in a big pyramid each wrapped in black plastic to make silage and that’s the only time the farmer asked us to get off in case we ripped the plastic. Our legs were scratched all summer long from the bales!

we also used to make rafts out of polystyrene crates the nearby hotel gave us (food was delivered in them) and float down on the burn/stream into the river.

TheBell · 19/04/2024 13:33

Primary school age, we all had knives and enjoyed playing Split the Kipper.

GoBonobo · 19/04/2024 13:35

Oh so many - we also played near the abandoned mine head and went swimming in the sea next to the sewage outfall. And the playground games - there was one in particular where you put a marble under the roundabout, everyone made the roundabout go really fast and one person had to retrieve the marble with their tongue. Jesus!

readdysteddy · 19/04/2024 13:35

When I was a kid we used to play a game in some woods on the edge of the housing estate where someone would go into the woods, do a big shit and then come back out and we all had to try and find it. It was called Hunt the Shit.

PuppetQueen · 19/04/2024 13:40

I was in a "gang" when I was eight. To join the gang, you had to lower your pants and show the other gang members your bottom.

Playing on building sites

Playing in an abandoned, boarded-up house

Walking for miles along former railway lines, which were surrounded by bushes

Playing hide and seek in a hospital, hiding amongst the clinical waste bins Envy

Crunchymum · 19/04/2024 13:40

Canal swimming
Managing to get up onto the roof the local tower blocks
Climbing high scaffolding
Playing in adventure playgrounds after hours (and putting up our own makeshift swings which weren't secure / scaling things we were allowed to when it was open like older frames that were awaiting repair)
Breaking in to an abandoned pub and using it as a secret base for the whole summer (had to scale barbed wire and climb really a really high fence or wall and climb in through a broken window)

The things listed are not everything, just the things I can think of that could have killed or seriously hurt someone.

And yes I'd be so upset if my kids did any of these things.

Crunchymum · 19/04/2024 13:43

readdysteddy · 19/04/2024 13:35

When I was a kid we used to play a game in some woods on the edge of the housing estate where someone would go into the woods, do a big shit and then come back out and we all had to try and find it. It was called Hunt the Shit.

😮

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 13:44

I forgot plaggy bagging which was going up the steepest hill on the estate after it had snowed and sliding down the road on a plastic bag.

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JanglingJack · 19/04/2024 13:45

Rivers and streams. I must have been about 7 when my wellies got stuck in the bottom. Tried to wriggle out - face planted in to the river 🤣

Playing on building sites. Up the ladders, round the scaffolding, all over the foundations, Using the toilet if the build had got that far. Being very confused by porno mags we'd find! - Why is his willy pointing up? That's the wrong way, he'll wee in his face 🤣🤣

spiderlight · 19/04/2024 13:45

Lived near a big patch of wasteland where there were lots of tethered horses and we used to go and visit them from the age of about 11, take them polos etc. (I know now never to feed horses, don't worry!). These were BIG horses - I'd be horrified if my DS and his friends were hanging out with huge strange horses, but nobody batted an eyelid back then. One was very distinctively marked, and about 15 years later, out walking in a different area of countryside, I came across a herd of loose horses and there was suddenly a flurry of excitement from the midst of them and she appeared and came straight up to me snuffling for a polo. It was 100% the same horse and I was a sobbing mess that she'd recognised me and so happy that she wasn't on a chain any more.

LolliesInTheSun · 19/04/2024 13:45

Played on the roof of a local high rise block of flats (careless caretaker often left the door to the stairs open).

Loved a game which involved two of us squashing into a milk crate and ‘go carting’ down a steep hilly street with a main road at the bottom.

Played ‘chicken’. Sitting in the road until the last possible minute that a car was coming before jumping to safety.

Jumping on and off fast moving buses.

Ah, the inner city life of London kids in the 80s Grin

readdysteddy · 19/04/2024 13:50

Crunchymum · 19/04/2024 13:43

😮

We made our own fun in those days 😂

Elderflower14 · 19/04/2024 13:54

Once when out with my Mum and older sister. I was about seven or eight.
My sister dared me to crawl through the pipe under the road so I did. Halfway through and my sister shouted that my Dad was coming down the road with his gypsy caravan and horse and I would be squashed. I panicked and arched my back. Mum had to calm me down so I could crawl out!
We used to swim in the filthy moat on our farm in old tractor tyres.
Often pinched bottles of wine from my parents parties and take them to my friends house to drink!

TulipTuesday · 19/04/2024 13:59

Aged about 10, my aunt had had a new washing machine delivered so gave us the giant box to play with.

We opened the bottom out and me, my 2 cousins and a couple of other kids climbed inside. We then rolled down the steep street in it, bashing in to each other as we went. Luckily no broken teeth or bones and no cars had come round the corner 😆

tobee · 19/04/2024 14:02

Going on a raft made out of wood which was being "sailed" across the foundations of a big house which had filled with rainwater. I was about 4 years old, unable to swim. No adults around (of course) only older boys from the neighbourhood. And my big sister.

Later it became a building site for a block of flats. Used to frequently explore the building site. It was private property but it wasn't boarded up at all like it would be today.

My sister was 2 years older than me and I would play out from about 3 years old or younger

user1471517095 · 19/04/2024 14:03

Knock and Run, garden creeping (we lived in a street of ten houses, basically went through all the back gardens one end to the other) and to change it up a bit we'd stand on a wall and eat the neighbours Pears. But without picking them so that all the cores were left dangling on the tree.😆