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Kids of the 70's/80's - what did you do playing out that would horrify people today?

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:15

I grew up in a pit village and we'd play on the pit tip, including round the slurry pond. We'd chuck sticks in and try to get them round the other side, we'd climb up and slide down the tip mounds. I only remember getting chased off once, it's bonkers to think it was all mostly open and unguarded!

There was a big open sewer? Storm? Drain or massive pipe with a grill across it that had been prised off and we used to go in there. I don't really know what it was, just that it was metal and massive and a bit wet and smelly and you could crawl quite a way in.

An old pit tip that time had grassed over but was not all that stable and had a chunk out the side of it. We called it "holey hill" and would sit in the carved out bit and make it bigger.

There was a stream with a big tree next to it. We had a rope tied round a branch and a stick to turn the rope into a swing. One side of the stream had a really steep banking and we had a massive knife and took it in turns to swing as high as possible and stick the knife into the banking. The next person had to swing to get the knife and then swing to put the knife higher up the banking. The winner was the person who got it so high nobody else was able to retrieve it.

Gathering hay from the fields and making a massive pile under a tree (different tree) then climbing the tree and jumping off it onto the hay. Bonus points for fancy jumps.

Playing chicken across the new road (it's still called the new road even though it's been there 40 years now and the old road's been buried for 30)

Climbing onto the row of garages at the bottom of the estate and jumping from one roof to the next.

God, so many!

I was chatting with my mum the other day and was reminiscing about all these games when I noticed my mum had gone absolutely silent.

She had no clue what I'd been doing all that time. She'd assumed I was just in the park. (Nobody played in the park. Who wants proper swings and slides when you've got pit tops, slurry ponds and knife games 🤣)

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RaininSummer · 19/04/2024 19:04

DrCoconut · 19/04/2024 16:23

I think I'm unusual because I wasn't allowed out unsupervised until my teens and even then for a set time/reason such as a cinema trip, no general hanging around. I think my mum worried that something would happen to me or I'd fall under bad influences.

Me too. I grew up in the 60s and early 70s and wasn't allowed into town with friends until I was 14. The only outside play was up and down our street on bikes no more than 8 houses either direction.

Taytocrisps · 19/04/2024 19:06

SoulMole · 19/04/2024 12:50

The kid next door made a 'rollercoaster' out of ladders, a sledge and scrap timber from his dad's garage, on our shared drive. Nearly 40 years later, we are both still alive.

😂😂😂

Taytocrisps · 19/04/2024 19:07

IjustbelieveinMe · 19/04/2024 13:01

Knock and run.

I'd forgotten about this. We call it doing knick knacks.

daffodilandtulip · 19/04/2024 19:07

Your first five paragraphs are my childhood 👀

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 19:10

80schildhood · 19/04/2024 17:30

I grew up in a very rough council estate. When me and my pals wanted to play "Houses" ( about 7/8 years old) we would chap the doors in all the flats and ask if they had a baby we could take out for a walk....AND THEY WOULD GIVE US THEIR BABIES. We'd bounce them down the stairs in their massive prams and walk them about the estate pretending they were ours. Sometimes if we couldn't get any babies we would take stranger's dogs out instead.

We also climbed onto the roof of garages and then play dead man's fall back off of it. There was lots of making dens. There was also lots of organising "square-gos" (fights) with other kids.

Oh yes that was another one. It was great when a neighbour had a baby and you'd get to push them round the estate in their pram.

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Naillig222 · 19/04/2024 19:11

Local swimming pool had steps into it. We used to swim under the steps and come out the other side. It was so narrow, we'd be squeezing ourselves through...UNDERWATER. The fact that none of us got stuck and drowned is a miracle. Visited the pool as an adult and realised how stupid we were back then! They have the sides of the steps covered up now.

GoodOldEmmaNess · 19/04/2024 19:14

In my 1970s childhood, 'adventure playgrounds' were massive teetering nailings-together of jagged old bits of scrap wood, seemingly botched into existence by collectives of DIYing dads with a relaxed attitude to death and mutilation.

Soooo different from the safety tested professional snooze-fests of today.

I remember them towering over me and being truly, nail-bitingly exciting.
There was an enormous one just next to the Imperial War Museum in London, as I recall. Really really fun.
EDIT: Just googled and found piucs of the sort of thing I mean. Don't think this was the very same playground, but certainly similar
https://rbkclocalstudies.wordpress.com/2014/10/23/adventure-playing-out-in-telford-road/

MrsMoastyToasty · 19/04/2024 19:19

Playing on the local golf course including making "bridges" to cross the water hazard and hunting for golf balls to sell back to the clubhouse shop, even if the balls were still in play. Going into the woods at the side of the golf course (there was usually a porn mag left nearby, so must have been the haunt of some pervert).
Playing in the half built houses on the estate where we live, climbing ladders because the stairs hadn't been installed. Climbing scaffolding and making cement from the open bags .

Blanketpolicy · 19/04/2024 19:19

We also used to play chicken with the cars on our road, hiding behind the hedge and darting out at the last minute to see if we could get across the road without being..........well............killed!!!

We also used to go and play at an old, falling apart farmhouse about a mile from home away from all the houses so no one would see you.

We would climb onto the crumbling roof and slide down it, then jump off the end onto the ground (the roof dipped low to below single story height so not a huge drop)

One time I was sliding down it I caught a rusty nail and it cut deep into my butt cheek on the way down. Never told my mum and dad as I knew I would had been in big big trouble playing there! It healed eventually but I remember it bled for days and I still have a scar.

Another time when on holiday, borrowed a rowing boat and went for a row..........in the Kyles of Bute, made it out to the middle before they noticed. It was quite choppy when the ferry when past us in our wee boat.

Such good memories 😂😂😂

Stoufer · 19/04/2024 19:25

Age around 4, followed my older siblings (aged around 8/10) and a group of kids from our street down a country road to the canal and was playing around there, on the tow path, with no-one directly supervising me..

Moved to a brand new house (one of the first completed) on a new estate aged approx 10.. used to spend lots of time in the evenings exploring the houses under construction (all open and unsecured), climbing up to the scaffolding at first floor level and jumping off into piles of builders’ sand…

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 19:26

I think it’s find to discuss this and some things are harmless, but its kind of weird that posters seem to be taking such pride in some really stupid things which could have killed them or impacted others.

60andsomething · 19/04/2024 19:26

A lot of posters are completely missing the point about the dangers that children face. We have a lower birth rate now, and invest more into each individual child. That is what has changed. It is pure biology

Pedallleur · 19/04/2024 19:28

Car scrap yard. Wrecked cars piled 3 or 4 high (not supported). Lots of oil and petrol and broken glass. Shards of metal, bits of engines. Climbing in, on, over those stacked cars. Building sites with wood, bricks, slate, prob asbestos. Who cared, no one knew. Or thought about it. We were just left to get on with. Both my parents worked hard. Railway. Sitting near the track, putting pennies on the rails. Local river. Nothing fenced off. One of the local boys drowned.

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 19:30

*fine not find

Ahwig · 19/04/2024 19:31

I feel like I invented the skateboard as in the late 60's I would stretch out my roller skate( the type that fitted over your shoe) to as long as i could get it, then put an annual on top of it , sit on it and whizz down a very big hill straight into traffic.
There used to be a ticket you could buy at the local bus garage called a red bus rover. I think it cost 50p and with that ticket you could travel on any bus or as many buses as you liked all day. My friends and I used to do this a lot. We went all around London and I remember being especially fascinated by ( what I now know is Soho) . We would go out about 9.30 am and get back about 6 or 7 pm. Our parents had absolutely no clue where we were ( although they did know we had the river ticket) . I was 11.

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 19:32

Taytocrisps · 19/04/2024 18:43

So many things

We'd play out for hours at a time and only come home when we were hungry or were called home for dinner or bed. We were unsupervised for hours at a time.

We'd go off cycling for hours. Never told our parents where we were going because we didn't know ourselves when we set off. Obviously we'd no bicycle helmets. We'd also get (and give) lifts on our bikes. You might have a younger sibling hanging off the back seat, holding on for dear life. Or be that younger sibling yourself Smile. Traffic was lighter back then but even so, I lived in a city - this wasn't some rural idyll where you'd only see one car an hour.

Not me but some of the more daring kids would cycle on the road doing wheelies. Or hang onto the backs of lorries and get a lift (there was a name for this - scutting?).

We'd decide (as a group) to go swimming because the weather was nice. We'd run home to change into our togs and meet up in the queue for the pool. There were always queues if the weather was nice. Our parents only knew we were going swimming if we needed to ask them for money. Or if we couldn't find our togs (first swim of the summer) and needed help locating them. It was an indoor pool so there were lifeguards, but there'd be millions of kids (of all ages) in the pool with no parents supervising. I don't know how the lifeguards managed to keep an eye on everyone.

Lots of kids went swimming in the local canal - they'd dive in off the canal bank.

I was a girl guide and the leaders would take us off on hikes and day trips. They seemed really grown up to me but on reflection, I'm not sure any of them were actually adults. I think they were mostly in their teens (like, 16 or 17). Maybe the captain was over 18 but I think the rest of the leaders were still in secondary school.

Our friends got a tent one summer and half the neighbourhood kids a group of us slept in the tent in their suburban garden.

Just hanging around the streets was dangerous due to the amount of stray dogs wandering around. Some of the dogs weren't strays at all - they were just allowed to roam free all day. Obviously we'd pet them all. There were no parents with us to urge caution about approaching stray dogs.

We'd collect bees or wasps and set up 'homes' for them in jam jars with a few leaves and a flower or two to make it more homely.

We'd eat unlimited sweets. Well, limited only by how much money we had and how many quarters (of sweets) we could buy for that amount. Chocolate was nicer but sweets lasted longer. Nobody was bothered about healthy eating or tooth decay.

Sometimes I look back with fondness and I'm glad that I got to experience such a carefree childhood - and I'm probably the last generation to do so. On the other hand, I'm aware of so many things that could have gone wrong. It's only a matter of luck that my siblings, friends and I made it to adulthood with nothing more serious than scratches, bruises and the odd broken limb.

Me too. Looking back I am amazed we made it. We were so stupid and reckless and all we could see was fun.
I think kids today are much more aware of risks and dangers.

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CountFucula · 19/04/2024 19:34

Jumping from the bridge into the river and hoping you’d land BETWEEN THE VERTICAL STAKES of wood 💀

Pedallleur · 19/04/2024 19:34

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 19:26

I think it’s find to discuss this and some things are harmless, but its kind of weird that posters seem to be taking such pride in some really stupid things which could have killed them or impacted others.

It wasn't thought about in the same way. As some of the posts have said, walking other peoples children, out all day in the hot sun (1976). No special water bottles. Maybe a bottle of pop and some penny chews. There were adverts on TV that said DO NOT play on the railway or touch the 25kv power lines. Don't see those ads today.

MaMisled · 19/04/2024 19:36

3 or 4 of us would position ourselves and our bikes in a heap in the middle of a quiet road and laugh our heads off at concerned drivers that stopped.

We spent summer days by the stream at the bottom of someone's huge garden, unseen, and never took our litter home.

We stood on high, piled up hay bales, held our breath til we got dizzy then jumped off into big nests of straw.

I'm rather respectable now though!

Taytocrisps · 19/04/2024 19:38

80schildhood · 19/04/2024 17:30

I grew up in a very rough council estate. When me and my pals wanted to play "Houses" ( about 7/8 years old) we would chap the doors in all the flats and ask if they had a baby we could take out for a walk....AND THEY WOULD GIVE US THEIR BABIES. We'd bounce them down the stairs in their massive prams and walk them about the estate pretending they were ours. Sometimes if we couldn't get any babies we would take stranger's dogs out instead.

We also climbed onto the roof of garages and then play dead man's fall back off of it. There was lots of making dens. There was also lots of organising "square-gos" (fights) with other kids.

I'd forgotten about borrowing babies. I didn't do it myself but a friend did. The mothers were quite happy to hand over their babies or toddlers so they could get on with cooking and cleaning. My friend would take them off for a walk. My friend was quite good with babies and toddlers. In fairness, she knew all the mothers. But even so.........

Pedallleur · 19/04/2024 19:39

Also the words nonce, paedo etc were never mentioned. The Moors Murderers were the talking point but can't remember us being locked in our rooms. Went to school with a girl called Moira Hindley. She would have been born in 1960 so pre Myra. No one ever gave her a hard time about her name.

TimeInBlue · 19/04/2024 19:40

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 19:26

I think it’s find to discuss this and some things are harmless, but its kind of weird that posters seem to be taking such pride in some really stupid things which could have killed them or impacted others.

Because it’s funny. We did those stupid things but we survived and are all the stronger for it. The kids these days are so mollycoddled if you gave one a penknife they’d cut themselves. Ok we may have been a bit feral but our childhoods were fantastic.

TimeInBlue · 19/04/2024 19:43

CountFucula · 19/04/2024 19:34

Jumping from the bridge into the river and hoping you’d land BETWEEN THE VERTICAL STAKES of wood 💀

Oof.

If you don’t have a scar did you even live in the 70s/80s? 😆

DamnSmartCat · 19/04/2024 19:44

Pedallleur · 19/04/2024 19:34

It wasn't thought about in the same way. As some of the posts have said, walking other peoples children, out all day in the hot sun (1976). No special water bottles. Maybe a bottle of pop and some penny chews. There were adverts on TV that said DO NOT play on the railway or touch the 25kv power lines. Don't see those ads today.

I’m aware it was different. My point was, it’s weird that some people seem to be taking pride in the very dangerous things, rather than reflecting on them as bad. It’s very, snigger snigger, kids and parents today are such snowflakes sort of thing, rather than fuck me, we were feral and parenting was awful/non existent at times back then.

SmugglersHaunt · 19/04/2024 19:46

Playing on a nearby building site all day despite all the public information films’ warnings
Smoking stolen fags from age 7 😳
Finding and studying seemingly endless porno mags that were discarded in bushes
Declaring war on the next street and having pitched battles every night in the summer
Ring a bell run
Sneaking as close to people’s houses as possible and trying (in vain) to change their TV channel with a stolen TV remote control

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