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Kids of the 70's/80's - what did you do playing out that would horrify people today?

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:15

I grew up in a pit village and we'd play on the pit tip, including round the slurry pond. We'd chuck sticks in and try to get them round the other side, we'd climb up and slide down the tip mounds. I only remember getting chased off once, it's bonkers to think it was all mostly open and unguarded!

There was a big open sewer? Storm? Drain or massive pipe with a grill across it that had been prised off and we used to go in there. I don't really know what it was, just that it was metal and massive and a bit wet and smelly and you could crawl quite a way in.

An old pit tip that time had grassed over but was not all that stable and had a chunk out the side of it. We called it "holey hill" and would sit in the carved out bit and make it bigger.

There was a stream with a big tree next to it. We had a rope tied round a branch and a stick to turn the rope into a swing. One side of the stream had a really steep banking and we had a massive knife and took it in turns to swing as high as possible and stick the knife into the banking. The next person had to swing to get the knife and then swing to put the knife higher up the banking. The winner was the person who got it so high nobody else was able to retrieve it.

Gathering hay from the fields and making a massive pile under a tree (different tree) then climbing the tree and jumping off it onto the hay. Bonus points for fancy jumps.

Playing chicken across the new road (it's still called the new road even though it's been there 40 years now and the old road's been buried for 30)

Climbing onto the row of garages at the bottom of the estate and jumping from one roof to the next.

God, so many!

I was chatting with my mum the other day and was reminiscing about all these games when I noticed my mum had gone absolutely silent.

She had no clue what I'd been doing all that time. She'd assumed I was just in the park. (Nobody played in the park. Who wants proper swings and slides when you've got pit tops, slurry ponds and knife games 🤣)

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johnworf · 19/04/2024 12:28

haha. Sounds much like my childhood. Playing in the canal, playing in sewer pipes, swimming in water of unknown source, roaming for hours with no clue where we were, catch a bus and see where it took you. It was actually really fun.

Devilsmommy · 19/04/2024 12:33

@IncompleteSenten your childhood sounds much like mine. And now I'm imagining the horror of parents realising that their kids did this🤣🤣🤣

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:36

Oh yes, the bus. That was fun.
Same with bikes. Just heading out in the morning with a sandwich and coming home when you were knackered.

We also used to go between surrounding villages using only fields and tracks. Pavements were for the weak 🤣

Railways tracks was another one.

And a raft across a river. A very dirty river. Friend of mine got stranded on the raft and I jumped in to a deep river to save her.

Except it wasn't deep as I realised when trying to swim to her and my knees were hitting the bottom 🤣 so I stood up, waded to her and pulled her back to the banking.

I went home soaking wet and my shoes were ruined and my mum gave me a hell of a thump. I told her I had saved my friends life (from a knee deep 'river' 🤣) and I just got a smack for ruining my shoes!

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Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 12:37

I could not put that out there in a public forum 😳

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:37

Ha yes, I'm imagining a lot of younger parents reading this and going well, now I'm glad my kids aren't allowed off my garden!

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:38

Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 12:37

I could not put that out there in a public forum 😳

Which bit?

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WhiteLeopard · 19/04/2024 12:39

I grew up in London. But we went on railway tracks and in rivers when staying with my gran in Devon. So funny to think of your mum finding out after all these years!

BlueChampagne · 19/04/2024 12:39

Unsecured school premises
Playing in the hay barn with no thought to rats/bale collapse
Had a pen knife at primary school age
Horse-riding hacks being led by teenagers
Playing in the stream

ShortColdandGrey · 19/04/2024 12:40

Climbing the cliffs and waving at the seals below. Running across the dual carriageway to go play at the farm. Leaving home in the morning and coming home when we were hungry. If my daughter was to do anything that I got up to I would have a heart attack 😂and like you if my mum knew what we were actually up to we would have been skelpt and grounded haha

Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 12:40

Well I guess the smoking from 13.

The boys. The drinking of martini.

And the rest 🤦‍♀️

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:40

WhiteLeopard · 19/04/2024 12:39

I grew up in London. But we went on railway tracks and in rivers when staying with my gran in Devon. So funny to think of your mum finding out after all these years!

I nearly bloody killed her! I thought she was going to have a bloody heart attack.

We were stupid. It's a wonder none of us were killed.

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:42

ShortColdandGrey · 19/04/2024 12:40

Climbing the cliffs and waving at the seals below. Running across the dual carriageway to go play at the farm. Leaving home in the morning and coming home when we were hungry. If my daughter was to do anything that I got up to I would have a heart attack 😂and like you if my mum knew what we were actually up to we would have been skelpt and grounded haha

Oh yes, if she knew at the time I would still be unable to sit down.

All so much fun at the time but seeing it through adult eyes its terrifying what we got up to.

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IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:44

Oh yes, smoking. I used to get their dog ends and nick their fag papers to make my own roll ups. I could roll a decent fag years before I could buy my own.

It was a different world alright.

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CharlotteBog · 19/04/2024 12:45

The "brick pile", the disused windmill and the old railway line (one train a year) were all within about 1/4 of a mile from our house.

Hanging by your knees on climbing frames set into concrete.
"Bouncing" the see-saw with 1 person on one side and about 40 on the other.

Monkeytapper · 19/04/2024 12:46

Swimming in the resevoir

Monkeytapper · 19/04/2024 12:46

Smoking in a massive shed of hay bales 🤦‍♀️

ShortColdandGrey · 19/04/2024 12:47

IncompleteSenten · 19/04/2024 12:42

Oh yes, if she knew at the time I would still be unable to sit down.

All so much fun at the time but seeing it through adult eyes its terrifying what we got up to.

It was so much fun though and I kind of feel bad for bairns today. We didn't have the traffic that is around today. So the roads were safer and the world seemed smaller. If we got caught doing anything we weren't threatened with my mum. They would say they were telling my gran and she was scarier than my parents 😂

Xylenegy · 19/04/2024 12:47

We lived on a nice street where there was privately owned housing on one side and council on the opposite side. Directly across from our house was what was referred to as a 'battered wives' home. I don't remember my parents being upset about this. There was no pearl clutching or worrying how this would affect house prices.

On a Saturday night, I would always be having friends over for a sleepover and our favourite pass time was to watch the men come and hammer on the door looking for their wives and children. They'd scream and throw things to try to get them to come out. Inevitably the Police would show up. I loved the constant stream of different children to play with who passed through the house too.

My friends and I would re-enact the scenes we'd seen with our dolls 🤣

Another thing we did was line all of our bikes up in front of the swings and have to jump off the swing at the highest point so we wouldn't land on the bikes. There were a few broken legs doing that.

As I got older, we used to sit on benches in town and see how many men we could get to beep their horn at us. Tragic!

SoulMole · 19/04/2024 12:50

The kid next door made a 'rollercoaster' out of ladders, a sledge and scrap timber from his dad's garage, on our shared drive. Nearly 40 years later, we are both still alive.

ShortColdandGrey · 19/04/2024 12:54

SoulMole · 19/04/2024 12:50

The kid next door made a 'rollercoaster' out of ladders, a sledge and scrap timber from his dad's garage, on our shared drive. Nearly 40 years later, we are both still alive.

😂

IjustbelieveinMe · 19/04/2024 13:01

Knock and run.

Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 13:07

S*eances

Knock and run (🤣)

Prank calls*

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 19/04/2024 13:15

Going by MN just playing out and going to the park seems horrifying some on here.

Lesina · 19/04/2024 13:16

Grew up in Belfast. Many times we would go and watch the riots 😂

Allshallbewell2021 · 19/04/2024 13:20

Love this thread

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